u/River_Intelligent

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My boyfriend found my old sex tapes and his reaction is confusing me

Hello, my 24f boyfriend 26m decided to go through my phone and went through my photo app. We’ve been together 6 months and I have never had a partner go through my photos and I still had a few videos of me and my previous partners having sex or of me giving head. I know I shouldn’t have them but I honestly forget they are there since no one has ever asked me about it. While going through my phone he asked if I had any previous videos of my sexual encounters and intentionally tried to find them to watch them. He even saw a picture of me with another man’s thumb in my mouth and said he liked that. So far this has not affected our relationship at all and he is not mad at me in the slightest. I’m just very confused by his behavior I’ve never had a partner react positively to seeing me with another man. Does anyone know what this could mean?

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u/River_Intelligent — 3 hours ago

My boyfriend found my old tapes and his reaction shocked me

Hello, I 23F am not sure if this is the right subreddit to post in but recently my partner 25M went through my phone and went through my photo app. I have never had a partner go through my photos and I still had a few videos of me and my previous partners having sex or of me giving head. I know I shouldn’t have them but I honestly forget they are there since no one has ever asked me about it. While going through my phone he asked if I had any previous videos of my sexual encounters and intentionally tried to find them to watch them. He even saw a picture of me with another man’s thumb in my mouth and said he liked that. So far this has not affected our relationship at all and he is not mad at me in the slightest. I’m just very confused by his behavior I’ve never had a partner react positively to seeing me with another man. Does anyone know what this could mean? Could this be some kind of kink? He frequently asks about my past sexual encounters in detail and it doesn’t bother him at all.

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u/River_Intelligent — 3 hours ago