He just… blocked me??!
So I posted a few days ago about my terrible SD who I plan to dump. An SD on Reddit reached out, as it turns out we’d met up about a year ago while he was in my city. We planned to meet up again, but he then disappeared on me. After recently reaching out, asked if we could do a video chat this past weekend, and I was like of course.
But then I got bronchitis and a fever and was feeling absolutely terrible, so I didn’t check Reddit or go much on my phone at all and completely forgot to respond with a time. He said it seemed I wasn’t interested and I apologized and told him where I was more responsive (a specific messaging app).
Later, I checked the app I asked him to contact me on (since I don’t visit Reddit a ton), and he hadn’t contacted me yet. So I sent him a message reiterating my username on that other platform, and then I went to bed. When I woke up, it turned out he had messaged me while I was asleep. Then, also while I was asleep, blocked me everywhere. Presumably because I didn’t respond immediately. It’s the strangest thing. I would maybe, MAYBE, understand if we hadn’t literally met before. But we did.
Also, is it that hard to communicate? I know people don’t like to waste time. But blocking me just because I didn’t respond immediately, late at night, seems to be an overreaction. I genuinely wanted to chat and meet up, but I was literally so sick that I could barely get out of bed. I even told him that I was sick and going to sleep.
Am I just unlucky? Are guys in this lifestyle just like this? He prides himself on being a gentleman, and I really thought he was one of the good ones. I’m so exhausted. With everything and everyone.