u/ProfessorOverall911

Shall we dispense with the flowery words and contrived phrases meant to appeal to as many as possible while probably turning off the one I'm really looking for? I'd rather just be straight anyway.

I want to chat regularly throughout the day as our lives allow, not because we have to but because it flows. This requires that we both be able to carry on a conversation using more than one or two word phrases. It also requires a genuine desire to get to know one another. Yeah, I want us to smile, laugh, banter back and forth, and then share more deeply as it becomes right. That's what I mean by regular.

I want something that we both want to keep. Because we both enjoy it. Because it's worth it. Because it sucks being here trying to sift through the detritus to find that something special. No ghosting. This require emotional awareness and maturity on both our parts. It means we communicate. And if we don't vibe, we're adult enough to say it and wish one another the best. That's what I mean by long-term.

I want all this with the undeniable undercurrent of desire-flirting, exploring, the electricity when our skin finally touches. So yeah, I will want to meet when the time is right, and if it's right, we'll want to meet again and again. That's what I mean by an undercurrent of desire.

So there it is. Do I need to throw in all the tired but true disclaimers now? I hope you already understand them and are still reading because they're assumed. Should I be more forward and crass? I feel like you've already seen those posts. But yes, I want you with all your kinks, desires, quirks, and everything else.

I know, I haven't said much about myself in the typical sense but if you're listening I've told you a great deal, or at least enough for you to be interested in more. But for those who need it: I'm a 50 married male who is fit and reasonably intelligent with a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor. I'd like to get to know you. If you're quirky or a bit of a nerd, we'll probably get along well.

I'd love to hear from you.

Shall we dispense with the flowery words and contrived phrases meant to appeal to as many as possible while probably turning off the one I'm really looking for? I'd rather just be straight anyway.

I want to chat regularly throughout the day as our lives allow, not because we have to but because it flows. This requires that we both be able to carry on a conversation using more than one or two word phrases. It also requires a genuine desire to get to know one another. Yeah, I want us to smile, laugh, banter back and forth, and then share more deeply as it becomes right. That's what I mean by regular.

I want something that we both want to keep. Because we both enjoy it. Because it's worth it. Because it sucks being here trying to sift through the detritus to find that something special. No ghosting. This require emotional awareness and maturity on both our parts. It means we communicate. And if we don't vibe, we're adult enough to say it and wish one another the best. That's what I mean by long-term.

I want all this with the undeniable undercurrent of desire-flirting, exploring, the electricity when our skin finally touches. So yeah, I will want to meet when the time is right, and if it's right, we'll want to meet again and again. You know what's next: that's what I mean by an undercurrent of desire.

So there it is. Do I need to throw in all tired but true the disclaimers now? I hope you already understand them and are still reading because they're assumed. I know, I haven't said much about myself in the typical sense but if you're listening I've told you a great deal, or at least enough for you to be interested in more. But for those who need it: I'm a 50 married male who is fit and reasonably intelligent with a bit of a sarcastic sense of humor.

I'd love for you to find out more because I certainly want to know more about you.