u/PenWide5753

26 [F4M] I love dominating and controlling who wants a sisssy/sub

I'm from the uk . I'm 5'11 with an average slim body and always up for a good time. I'm into netball, photography, reading, shopping and hanging out with friends.

I have several years of experience being a dom and therefore I know how to control you, as my sub, knowing when to reward and punish you where necessary. I would describe myself as very kind and caring, but I definitely have a sadistic side to me, which is what you will get when I'm using you. Of course you are allowed to be a bit misbehaving at times, but don't expect me to go soft on you when you are, because you WILL be punished!

I'm looking for a loyal, obedient and enthousiastic long term sub that likes to be controlled in almost every aspect, who is willing to give up their body completely to me and make their owner's pleasure a priority especially above their own. I also like a sub that likes to have a nice conversation here and there. In between some sessions.

We're both still people right?

The main question that still remains is. Do you think you are THAT perfect sub I am looking for? If you're interested tell me with your ASL, kinks, limits and maybe a picture of you.

Kinks: Humiliation, degradation, praise, tpe, chastity, anal, rules and punishments, light CBT, spanking, bondage, gags, choking, orgasm control and denial, and there's much more but that's what comes to mind. I can host

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u/PenWide5753 — 6 hours ago

26 [F4M] the dominant parts makes me wants a submissive partner

Firm, yet kind. Demanding yet caring. Funny when desired, serious when needed. Ever present, like a hand on your lower back, reminding you to stay upright and carry yourself properly. Is this what you're looking for? If it is then maybe you should continue reading.

My experience as an online Dom goes back a few years now, with a handful of dynamics, some longer some shorter. Every dynamic is unique to the people who are part of it, and some were saw a faster development with a shorter duration whirl other, like the last one, lasted a couple of years, and reached a depth I was even surprised by. At the moment I'm looking for something more akin to this second kind, something that develops through a reasonable amount of time and becomes all-encompassing.

I've had experience with various degrees of control and power exchange, from a light influence for someone seeking guidance to more intense forms of control, up to basic bodily functions. And to be honest, this is the ultimate kind of control I enjoy.

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u/PenWide5753 — 9 hours ago

26 F4M Dom makes me wants a submissive man in nature who’s ready to give up control

I'm a dominant mistress wanting for a submissive male slut to be trained owned and collared by me Im a very casual and flexible domme. I really care about making my sub happy! If your not having fun, then neither am i.

I can change my domme style to cater just how you want:) i can be super harsh and abusive, or very friendly and loving. Maybe a mix of both? Up to you!!

I have lots of amazing kinks to explore with my subs which are Anal play Ball busting Bondage Ball gags brainwashing

CBT chastity collar and leash degrading edging feet femdom gagging humiliation hypnosis mind control mind fucking mistress Slave play

Obidience training pegging spit play strapons and tease and denial

Only limits are scat, blood and underage. Im into EVERYTHING besides those.

I like to chat alot and get to know you first before we jump into anything, so please be open to chatting and telling me about yourself.

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u/PenWide5753 — 9 hours ago

[USA] # San Diego domination makes me be a dom woman wanting a submissive/slave sissy to be mine

I'm a dominant mistress wanting for a submissive male slut to be trained owned and collared by me Im a very casual and flexible domme. I really care about making my sub happy! If your not having fun, then neither am i.

I can change my domme style to cater just how you want:) i can be super harsh and abusive, or very friendly and loving. Maybe a mix of both? Up to you!!

I have lots of amazing kinks to explore with my subs which are Anal play Ball busting Bondage Ball gags brainwashing

CBT chastity collar and leash degrading edging feet femdom gagging humiliation hypnosis JOI mind control mind fucking mistress Slave play

Obidience training pegging spit play strapons and tease and denial

Only limits are scat, blood and underage. Im into EVERYTHING besides those.

I like to chat alot and get to know you first before we jump into anything, so please be open to chatting and telling me about yourself.

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u/PenWide5753 — 9 hours ago

26 F4M being in control makes me seek for a submissive sissy slave to submit to me

I'm a dominant mistress looking for a submissive male slut to be trained owned and collared by me Im a very casual and flexible domme. I really care about making my sub happy! If your not having fun, then neither am i.

I can change my domme style to cater just how you want:) i can be super harsh and abusive, or very friendly and loving. Maybe a mix of both? Up to you!!

I have lots of amazing kinks to explore with my subs which are Anal play Ball busting Bondage Ball gags brainwashing

CBT chastity collar and leash degrading edging feet femdom gagging humiliation hypnosis JOI mind control mind fucking mistress Slave play

Obidience training pegging spit play strapons and tease and denial

Only limits are scat, blood and underage. Im into EVERYTHING besides those.

I like to chat alot and get to know you first before we jump into anything, so please be open to chatting and telling me about yourself.

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u/PenWide5753 — 9 hours ago

26F being in control makes me a dom and makes me seek for a submissive slave and sissies to submit to me

I'm from the UK. I'm 5'11 with an average slim body and always up for a good time. I'm into netball, photography, reading, shopping and hanging out with friends.

I have several years of experience being a dom and therefore I know how to control you, as my sub, knowing when to reward and punish you where necessary. I would describe myself as very kind and caring, but I definitely have a sadistic side to me, which is what you will get when I'm using you. Of course you are allowed to be a bit misbehaving at times, but don't expect me to go soft on you when you are, because you WILL be punished!

I'm looking for a loyal, obedient and enthousiastic long term sub that likes to be controlled in almost every aspect, who is willing to give up their body completely to me and make their owner's pleasure a priority especially above their own. I also like a sub that likes to have a nice conversation here and there. In between some sessions.

We're both still people right?

The main question that still remains is. Do you think you are THAT perfect sub I am looking for? If you're interested DM me with your ASL, kinks, limits and maybe a picture of you.

Kinks: Humiliation, degradation, praise, tpe, chastity, anal, rules and punishments, light CBT, spanking, bondage, gags, choking, orgasm control and denial, and there's much more but that's what comes to mind.

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u/PenWide5753 — 19 hours ago

USA 26F wants a submissive/slave/sissy to submit to me

I'm 26, grounded, and I don't confuse volume with authority. I prefer control that's earned, not performed.

What I'm looking for isn't someone who just says "use me" and disappears in a week. I want a man who's genuinely submissive but still thinks, questions, and brings her own energy into the dynamic. A little resistance makes things interesting. Blind obedience gets boring fast.

My style leans structured. Clear expectations, consistency, and attention to detail. I enjoy building something that has rhythm to it, not just chaotic intensity.

Protocol, check-ins, and growth matter more to me than ticking off a list of kinks.

I'm not here for collectors or tourists. If you're juggling five "Doms" and calling it exploration, we probably won't align.

What you can expect from me:

- Direct communication

- Patience without softness where it doesn't belong

- A focus on long-term dynamic over quick thrills

- Respect that isn't conditional

What I expect from you:

V

- Honesty, even when it's inconvenient

- Effort and consistency

- The ability to let go of control without losing yourself

- Also sissification

- Chastity and so much on

-

Let me know your kinks as well

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u/PenWide5753 — 20 hours ago

26 female wants a submissive/sissy/slave to submit to me

I'm 26, grounded, and I don't confuse volume with authority. I prefer control that's earned, not performed.

What I'm looking for isn't someone who just says "use me" and disappears in a week. I want a man who's genuinely submissive but still thinks, questions, and brings her own energy into the dynamic. A little resistance makes things interesting. Blind obedience gets boring fast.

My style leans structured. Clear expectations, consistency, and attention to detail. I enjoy building something that has rhythm to it, not just chaotic intensity.

Protocol, check-ins, and growth matter more to me than ticking off a list of kinks.

I'm not here for collectors or tourists. If you're juggling five "Doms" and calling it exploration, we probably won't align.

What you can expect from me:

- Direct communication

- Patience without softness where it doesn't belong

- A focus on long-term dynamic over quick thrills

- Respect that isn't conditional

What I expect from you:

V

- Honesty, even when it's inconvenient

- Effort and consistency

- The ability to let go of control without losing yourself

- Also sissification

- Chastity and so much on

-

Let me know your kinks as well

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u/PenWide5753 — 24 hours ago

26 [F4M] domination lifestyle makes me want a submissive/sissy/slave to submit to me

I'm from the USA . I'm 5'11 with an average slim body and always up for a good time. I'm into netball, photography, reading, shopping and hanging out with friends.

I have several years of experience being a dom and therefore I know how to control you, as my sub, knowing when to reward and punish you where necessary. I would describe myself as very kind and caring, but I definitely have a sadistic side to me, which is what you will get when I'm using you. Of course you are allowed to be a bit misbehaving at times, but don't expect me to go soft on you when you are, because you WILL be punished!

I'm looking for a loyal, obedient and enthousiastic long term sub that likes to be controlled in almost every aspect, who is willing to give up their body completely to me and make their owner's pleasure a priority especially above their own. I also like a sub that likes to have a nice conversation here and there. In between some sessions.

We're both still people right?

The main question that still remains is. Do you think you are THAT perfect sub I am looking for? If you're interested DM me with your ASL, kinks, limits and maybe a picture of you.

Kinks: Humiliation, degradation, praise, tpe, chastity, anal, rules and punishments, light CBT, spanking, bondage, gags, choking, orgasm control and denial, and there's much more but that's what comes to mind.

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u/PenWide5753 — 2 days ago

[USA] # Florida seeking sub/sissy to submit to me

Hello you taking time to read this, how are you? Hope this post is worth your while. Long story short, my name is Jenny, I'm 26, and I want to tie you up! Sure the title says dom seeking sub, which is true, but I'm a dom that's perhaps a bit softer? Maybe? Sometimes. Unless I'm feeling like being harsh. I like to be rough and dark with some fantasies for sure. Truthfully I just want to tie you up and gag you, tease you, and punish if I have to...or if I want to ;) I will most definitely treat you like a gf. Call it a bad habit, call it good care, whatever it is, l'll be a little possessive of you. Anyways! You have to like being tied up, you have to be submissive, and you have to ya know, at least be somewhat interested in me. We can discuss kinks more later, I'm open to many things, hard limits are blood, toilet stuff, and age play. Kinks are bondage, spanking, choking, dom/sub, master/slave, CNC, and soooo many more! If you've read this far, you're a trooper.

I'll be here, hope to hear from you soon!

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u/PenWide5753 — 2 days ago

26 looking for a submissive slave/sissy to submit to me

Hello you taking time to read this, how are you? Hope this post is worth your while. Long story short, my name is Jenny, I'm 26, and I want to tie you up! Sure the title says dom seeking sub, which is true, but I'm a dom that's perhaps a bit softer? Maybe? Sometimes. Unless I'm feeling like being harsh. I like to be rough and dark with some fantasies for sure. Truthfully I just want to tie you up and gag you, tease you, and punish if I have to...or if I want to ;) I will most definitely treat you like a gf. Call it a bad habit, call it good care, whatever it is, l'll be a little possessive of you. Anyways! You have to like being tied up, you have to be submissive, and you have to ya know, at least be somewhat interested in me. We can discuss kinks more later, I'm open to many things, hard limits are blood, toilet stuff, and age play. Kinks are bondage, spanking, choking, dom/sub, master/slave, CNC, and soooo many more! If you've read this far, you're a trooper.

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u/PenWide5753 — 4 days ago

26F looking for a submissive slave/sissy to submit to me

Hello you taking time to read this, how are you? Hope this post is worth your while. Long story short, my name is Jenny, I'm 26, and I want to tie you up! Sure the title says dom seeking sub, which is true, but I'm a dom that's perhaps a bit softer? Maybe? Sometimes. Unless I'm feeling like being harsh. I like to be rough and dark with some fantasies for sure. Truthfully I just want to tie you up and gag you, tease you, and punish if I have to...or if I want to ;) I will most definitely treat you like a gf. Call it a bad habit, call it good care, whatever it is, l'll be a little possessive of you. Anyways! You have to like being tied up, you have to be submissive, and you have to ya know, at least be somewhat interested in me. We can discuss kinks more later, I'm open to many things, hard limits are blood, toilet stuff, and age play. Kinks are bondage, spanking, choking, sissification, sub and soooo many more! If you've read this far, you're a trooper. Tell me your kinks as well

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u/PenWide5753 — 4 days ago

26F USA I want to dominate a sub/sissy to submit to me

hey there! I'm looking for a (hopefully) long term online

FWB situation. No worries if you're in a relationship or whatever your status is, this is strictly online only and I promise to be discreet:

I would love to chat about how your day is going, talk about your hobbies, and then let you blow off steam by telling me how you want to fuck me.

Please know, I can talk. I can talk A LOT. Please be okay with that.

Please be submissive in nature and as fun to talk to as you are horny. Any age 18+ is welcome, but preference to those in the 21-25 range. Ability to type in sentence form to the top of the line.

I would also love if you share some of my kinks, including oral, teasing, praise, rough sex, dom/ sub, impact play, CNC, cum play, choking... the list goes on.

Let me know what you're

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u/PenWide5753 — 4 days ago

Repeat exposure might have made me a dom

Sooooo, my friends and I have had this inside joke about calling me mommy or any other related names like mama or mamacita for a while now, and most of the time I would just laugh it off because it wasn't doing anything for me.

Well, recently I've realised that instead of doing nothing, it makes my pussy throb instead... suddenly I've started imaging what it would be like to actually be a mommy, to cradle a perfect babygirl or boy and let them suck my big tits while I'm rubbing that sweet pussy or pumping a hot cock. Suddenly I'm imagining what it would be like to ride a thick cock and have a whimpering mess below me call me mommy... or eating a sweet girls pussy and teasing her until she asks her mommy properly...

Being bisexual really doesn't help since I can indulge in my fantasies so much more.

ugh, did I become a victim of repeat exposure...

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u/PenWide5753 — 5 days ago

26 [F4M] #Online Looking for someone to make life more exciting

I am an unemployed 26f and my life feels like a very repetitive exercise of waking up, trying to get the energy to have a shower and get dressed, and applying for jobs I never hear back from.

I'm single and have been for a while. Ive gone on a couple of dates since my last relationship ended, but I've not really been feeling it and my ex left me for another girl which puts me off getting my heart broken again by throwing myself into dating properly.

I'm looking for someone who could make my life more exciting. In my head Im imagining doing tasks or challenges for you, or following some rules, but if you simply want to hangout that is ok too. I'll probably also think this is stupid and delete this in 5 minutes but maybe not I don't know.

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u/PenWide5753 — 5 days ago

Repeat exposure might have made me a dominant mommy

Sooooo, my friends and I have had this inside joke about calling me mommy or any other related names like mama or mamacita for a while now, and most of the time I would just laugh it off because it wasn't doing anything for me.

Well, recently I've realised that instead of doing nothing, it makes my pussy throb instead... suddenly I've started imaging what it would be like to actually be a mommy, to cradle a perfect babygirl or boy and let them suck my big tits while I'm rubbing that sweet pussy or pumping a hot cock. Suddenly I'm imagining what it would be like to ride a thick cock and have a whimpering mess below me call me mommy... or eating a sweet girls pussy and teasing her until she asks her mommy properly...

Being bisexual really doesn't help since I can indulge in my fantasies so much more.

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u/PenWide5753 — 6 days ago

Repeat exposure might have made me a dominant

Sooooo, my friends and I have had this inside joke about calling me mommy or any other related names like mama or mamacita for a while now, and most of the time I would just laugh it off because it wasn't doing anything for me.

Well, recently I've realised that instead of doing nothing, it makes my pussy throb instead... suddenly I've started imaging what it would be like to actually be a mommy, to cradle a perfect babygirl or boy and let them suck my big tits while I'm rubbing that sweet pussy or pumping a hot cock. Suddenly I'm imagining what it would be like to ride a thick cock and have a whimpering mess below me call me mommy... or eating a sweet girls pussy and teasing her until she asks her mommy properly...

Being bisexual really doesn't help since I can indulge in my fantasies so much more.

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u/PenWide5753 — 6 days ago