u/Noss7

I’ve been flirting and what not within texts, sexting at times too. But I’ve never really found anyone that’s dominant, I’ve talked to plenty of tops but it’s always the same stuff in dms. Like talking about “how many inches you think you could take” or “where would you take my load”. I want to be TOLD what gonna happen, I am just a very shy people pleaser so I don’t want to make a choice or tell someone hows somethings gonna happen. Ofc boundaries are important and it’s not like I wanna be forced to take something I can’t, just want the people I interact with to be more confident and dominant.