Overnight booking went badly
For context, I've (male, 50s) been seeing the same SW for 7 months, following a difficult relationship breakup which put me off conventional dating. She is the first and only escort I have seen. We've met up about a dozen times and I thought we got on really well. I know her real name and we speak or text most days. I'm reliable, we go out on nice dates and I book long sessions. She knows I like her a lot and we've talked about having a different arrangement, like a sugar relationship I guess, and that we'd introduce each other to friends/family eventually.
Last week she said she was feeling down and also needed money for a few bills so I sent her some in lieu of a meet in the future. We have done this before and it's not been an issue. We met up in a hotel a couple of days later and she asked me if we could do an overnight booking for more money. It was the equivalent of about 5K USD in total. We have done this before, again no issue normally. She wanted some coke which she would pay for herself and her (female) friend who was picking it up was going to come up for a little chat, and then my SW and I would have some 'us' time. There was no suggestion that this friend was there for anything sexual. This friend ended up staying for nearly 6 hours. I was happy initially to chat with them but it went on far longer than it should have. I didn't want to spoil the vibe and I kept thinking she was going to leave any minute so I didn't ask her to leave.
My SW's period then started and she got some cramps and obviously sex was out of the question then. She ended up leaving shortly after, with her friend, about 2AM, far earlier than we'd agreed but I guess there wasn't much point in her staying. No intimacy at all and nearly all of the meet taken up by this friend of hers. BTW I am not suggesting for a millisecond that anyone should have to have sex when they are in pain or for that matter if they don't want to, for any reason, even if it's been 'paid for'.
So my SW has offered to see me this week. But she wants me to pay her standard rate, with only one 'free' hour as a sweetener. I told her this was not fair, and explained why. She has now offered me 2 free hours but I still need to pay her ~2K USD equivalent for a much shorter booking than the other night. I'm not suggesting asking for another whole night for free, but maybe a few hours? The other night was an awful lot of money just to watch 2 women do coke and chat to each other and not actively involve me.
I get that stuff happens and money can be tight but that can happen in any industry. The usual thing if you can't provide an agreed-upon service at a particular time, even if it's due to something that's beyond your control, is that you provide that service at a later date, not charge again for it. I can't help but feel ripped off. Am I being unreasonable?
Quibbling over what's fair and what's not is also kind of ruining the vibe for me. I'm wondering if the right thing to do might be just to cut my losses and walk away.