My wife and her wand
Not long ago my pretty vanilla wife was a no-go for sex toys. Then I asked her if she would like to try with a wand and she said yes.
fast forward this week, we have been using that toy quite often. at the beginning it was me pushing her to use it, now she would ask for it every sesh.
By no means I'm opposed to it, quite the opposite. I love seeing her cumming and fully concentrate on her pleasure. She could easily come 2 or 3 times per session, and even last time she said she would have cummed a fourth time, but it was with me inside and I cannot take it much longer when she is in that zone.
Although the post is to brag a bit, the only downside I picked from all these is that she would take longer to come from oral (it was her go to!). She is still able to cum from oral but when I asked she says that with the wand she doesn't have to concentrate, it just happens. she is also taking some medication that affects her ability to cum easy.
anyone else has experienced similar? if anything, this has enhanced our sex life, but just looking at potential downsides.