u/Much-Negotiation-970

Feedback on a new Dom

Hi. I'm not entirely new to this lifestyle but it's been a long time. Recently, I started looking for a new Dom. I met someone, we'll call him R, and so far I see all green flags. It feels pretty wonderful. We think the same way about all the important things, and we're both really excited to talk pretty much all the time. We've covered our kinks, likes, dislikes and what kind of D/s relationship we're looking for. Same page. But my insecurities are getting the best of me. I asked him what level of involvement he's looking for - it seemed like a reasonable question. He said he would like to chat every day (which I expected) but he doesn't have any expectation for meeting/playing and he doesnt' know what that looks like yet. We are talking on the phone tomorrow, and he's said he'd like to meet in person. But that insecurity is telling me he's hedging his bets like he thinks maybe it won't work. Buttt he constantly tells me how much he's enjoying our conversation! Ah! It's our second day of chatting, and I don't want to seem too overeager. Am I just overanalyzing it?

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