
u/Mobile_Performance86

Permission and Autonomy
I posted on this general topic a while back, but I don’t know if I was as clear as I intended to be so here’s attempt #2.
I am curious about how permission, for lack of a better word, works in your relationship. I don’t mean traditional “permission” but more in a different way.
For example, my wife and I are going to an event in a few weeks and she was trying on dresses. She looked so good in all of them and they were all really sexy in different ways. Some more revealing than others. She was FaceTiming with her sister and getting opinions, and sort of casually mentioned that she probably won’t wear underwear with one particular dress. Not uncommon for her.
I have no issue with her not wearing underwear, but she certainly didn’t ask my opinion on it either. How would it work in your marriage if you did want your wife to wear underwear? Or if you are the wife, how would you respond if your husband said he’d prefer you wear them.
That’s just one example, I have plenty. Some are more risqué, some less.
Discussion here or a DM is fine.