u/Intelfairy

Adding a third: how to handle his fears?

Hey guys, so my husband and I have been talking about adding a third to our fun for a while now, and he’s finally on board - which is amazing because I know this was a big hurdle for him. The thing is, he’s still a little nervous about how it’ll actually play out. Like, will he feel left out? Is he worried I’ll like someone else more? We’re both totally cool with the idea in theory, but I guess real-life execution is what’s getting to him. Has anyone else’s partner dealt with similar nerves before? Any tips or experiences to share? I wanna make sure we both feel comfortable and ready to take this step together.

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u/Intelfairy — 21 hours ago