Gf is open to the idea of hotwifing, just not yet
My (27) gf (26) and I have now been dating just over a year.
I brought up hotwifing about 6 months into the relationship, and it came up pretty naturally by me just showing interest in her sexual past. She didn’t shut it down at all, but just said she’d rather save it for much later in life (like 10+ years), when things get a bit boring. We’re still kind of in that honeymoon phase, so I’m not in a super huge rush either I guess. She also said she wants to make sure it’s not just something I’ve picked up from porn.
Since then though it hasn’t really gone away. She jokes about it pretty regularly, or when I bring it up she’ll play into it. She teases me, reminds me of old guys she’s been with who were bigger. Even has made comments about how the bigger ones used to make her squirt, and reminds me that it’s something I’ve never been able to make her do. It’s said casually but there seems to definitely be some excitement behind it.
Our sex life now isn’t bad.. I can make her finish but only really from me going down on her or when she’s riding me with heavy clit stimulation. She makes comments a lot that I’m the best head she’s ever gotten, though she’s never made any comments like this about my dick or our penetrative sex. It’s fairly clear she’s had better dick before, which kind of feeds into it I think
I can’t tell if she’s slowly warming up to it earlier than she first mentioned, or just keeping it as a “maybe one day” thing while enjoying the dynamic now. I feel like it’s something I shouldn’t try to push at this stage.
Has anyone had something like this actually turn into something real over time?