u/Expert_World_7558

So, I’ve been seeing this girl, and we recently started having sex. She’s never masturbated before. When I’m pleasuring her, like fingering or oral, she says she feels like she needs to pee. I know this is a normal sensation when someone’s close to climax, so I encourage her to just relax and let it happen. But even after 10 minutes or so, she can’t let go and sometimes pulls away, maybe because she thinks she’ll actually pee. I want to make her feel comfortable, but she can’t seem to let her body relax. Im also unsure if it's a me issue, like how is she sitting here at 10 minutes on the verge and not finishing. Am I doing something wrong? Any experience or advice can help.