questions about bottoming
Hey yall,
Im pretty new to bottoming and I'm running into a frustrating issue. I absolutely love taking loads - the few times I've managed to actually take dick have been absolutely amazing and everything I hoped for. But the problem is getting to that point in the first place.
No matter how much lube I use (and I've tried a lot), I find myself involuntarily clenching up and essentially "running away" from the dick. It's like my body has a mind of its own and rejects penetration even though I really want it. I've tried relaxing, breathing, different positions, but the moment things start getting serious, my muscles tense up and it becomes painful or impossible.
The frustrating part is that when I have managed to push through and actually take it, the experience has been incredible
For those of you who were once new bottoms, how did you get past this mental/physical disconnect? How do you train your body to relax and accept what your mind wants? I'm getting frustrated because I love taking loads when I can manage it, but my body fights me most of the time.
Any specific techniques, positions, or training methods that helped you push through this initial resistance? Did it just take time and practice? I
Thanks in advance for any advice!