u/Edging_Sherpa

Since March 2025 and I have not cum without permission. My partner has been the one to give me permission, usually in person, sometimes by text, and occasionally by proxy. Usually I'm given permission once or twice a week. She ramped me up to 10 days once and I was absolutely feral.

Sometimes though, she gets me mid ramp and then has stress at work and kind of loses track of permission. What is hard is when our energy is mismatched: I keep going up while she is going down. We like the overall dynamic, but haven't found a safety valve for this situation.

I'm at day 7 and am not sure if or when I'll get relief, but I don't want to bother her (begging is fun, but that's different).

Any suggestions?