u/Dull-Government4758

39 [M4F] #BC PST - That ‘A’ in ‘A Girlfriend’ Isn’t Optional.

I’m looking for a girlfriend. That “a” matters. Once we’ve built a real connection, I’m not interested in juggling multiple conversations, and I hope you feel the same. I’d also like this to lead to something real eventually, so please reach out only if meeting in person could be a possibility down the road and you have the time to invest in something meaningful.

No one-word replies or disappearing acts, please. I'd appreciate you letting me know if it isn't working out for you, and I'll do the same. Let's treat each other with a bit more kindness and respect.

Now that the serious part is out of the way… hi 😊

I’m looking for a best friend who feels like something is missing at home. Maybe life has turned into routines, responsibilities, and going through the motions. Maybe you miss being truly seen, appreciated, and desired.

Do you miss sharing your day with someone who actually listens?
Do you miss those “good morning” and “good night” messages and check-ins that make you smile?
Do you miss feeling wanted desperately, thought about, and… just a little claimed in the best way?

If you can hold a conversation, ask questions, and bring real energy, I promise you’ll get the same in return. I don't expect (or need) 24/7 texting, just consistent communication, attention, and effort. I value a connection that adds intensity and excitement to our lives without turning them upside down. I'm not looking for single women or cake eaters, and I'm hoping you aren't, too.

Please be married, and emotionally available.

About me:
5’10”, athletic build, salt-and-pepper hair (and no, not bald 😄), affectionate, curious, a little possessive, but always kind. I have a demanding career I care about, and I’m a devoted father of two, but I make time for someone who truly matters.

If this feels like the spark you’ve been missing I'd love to know what your unpopular opinion is… What statement would you defend until you die? If that's too extreme, what movie/ TV series have you watched recently that made you cry?

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u/Dull-Government4758 — 22 hours ago

39 [M4F] #BC PST - That ‘A’ in ‘A Girlfriend’ Isn’t Optional.

I’m looking for a girlfriend. That “a” matters. Once we’ve built a real connection, I’m not interested in juggling multiple conversations, and I hope you feel the same. I’d also like this to lead to something real eventually, so please reach out only if meeting in person could be a possibility down the road and you have the time to invest in something meaningful.

No one-word replies or disappearing acts, please. I'd appreciate you letting me know if it isn't working out for you, and I'll do the same. Let's treat each other with a bit more kindness and respect.

Now that the serious part is out of the way… hi 😊

I’m looking for a best friend who feels like something is missing at home. Maybe life has turned into routines, responsibilities, and going through the motions. Maybe you miss being truly seen, appreciated, and desired.

Do you miss sharing your day with someone who actually listens?
Do you miss those “good morning” and “good night” messages and check-ins that make you smile?
Do you miss feeling wanted desperately, thought about, and… just a little claimed in the best way?

If you can hold a conversation, ask questions, and bring real energy, I promise you’ll get the same in return. I don't expect (or need) 24/7 texting, just consistent communication, attention, and effort. I value a connection that adds intensity and excitement to our lives without turning them upside down. I'm not looking for single women or cake eaters, and I'm hoping you aren't, too.

Please be married, and emotionally available.

About me:
5’10”, athletic build, salt-and-pepper hair (and no, not bald 😄), affectionate, curious, a little possessive, but always kind. I have a demanding career I care about, and I’m a devoted father of two, but I make time for someone who truly matters.

If this feels like the spark you’ve been missing I'd love to know what your unpopular opinion is… What statement would you defend until you die? If that's too extreme, what movie/ TV series have you watched recently that made you cry?

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u/Dull-Government4758 — 22 hours ago

39 [M4F] #BC PST - That ‘A’ in ‘A Girlfriend’ Isn’t Optional.

I’m looking for a girlfriend. That “a” matters. Once we’ve built a real connection, I’m not interested in juggling multiple conversations, and I hope you feel the same. I’d also like this to lead to something real eventually, so please reach out only if meeting in person could be a possibility down the road and you have the time to invest in something meaningful.

No one-word replies or disappearing acts, please. I'd appreciate you letting me know if it isn't working out for you, and I'll do the same. Let's treat each other with a bit more kindness and respect.

Now that the serious part is out of the way… hi 😊

I’m looking for a best friend who feels like something is missing at home. Maybe life has turned into routines, responsibilities, and going through the motions. Maybe you miss being truly seen, appreciated, and desired.

Do you miss sharing your day with someone who actually listens?
Do you miss those “good morning” and “good night” messages and check-ins that make you smile?
Do you miss feeling wanted desperately, thought about, and… just a little claimed in the best way?

If you can hold a conversation, ask questions, and bring real energy, I promise you’ll get the same in return. I don't expect (or need) 24/7 texting, just consistent communication, attention, and effort. I value a connection that adds intensity and excitement to our lives without turning them upside down. I'm not looking for single women or cake eaters, and I'm hoping you aren't, too.

Please be married, and emotionally available.

About me:
5’10”, athletic build, salt-and-pepper hair (and no, not bald 😄), affectionate, curious, a little possessive, but always kind. I have a demanding career I care about, and I’m a devoted father of two, but I make time for someone who truly matters.

If this feels like the spark you’ve been missing I'd love to know what your unpopular opinion is… What statement would you defend until you die? If that's too extreme, what movie/ TV series have you watched recently that made you cry?

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u/Dull-Government4758 — 22 hours ago

39 [M4F] #BC PST - That 'A' in 'A Girlfriend' Isn't Optional

I’m looking for a girlfriend. That “a” matters. Once we’ve built a real connection, I’m not interested in juggling multiple conversations, and I hope you feel the same. I’d also like this to lead to something real eventually, so please reach out only if meeting in person could be a possibility down the road and you have the time to invest in something meaningful.

No one-word replies or disappearing acts, please. I'd appreciate you letting me know if it isn't working out for you, and I'll do the same. Let's treat each other with a bit more kindness and respect.

Now that the serious part is out of the way… hi 😊

I’m looking for a best friend who feels like something is missing at home. Maybe life has turned into routines, responsibilities, and going through the motions. Maybe you miss being truly seen, appreciated, and desired.

Do you miss sharing your day with someone who actually listens?
Do you miss those “good morning” and “good night” messages and check-ins that make you smile?
Do you miss feeling wanted desperately, thought about, and… just a little claimed in the best way?

If you can hold a conversation, ask questions, and bring real energy, I promise you’ll get the same in return. I don't expect (or need) 24/7 texting, just consistent communication, attention, and effort. I value a connection that adds intensity and excitement to our lives without turning them upside down. I'm not looking for single women or cake eaters, and I'm hoping you aren't, too.

About me:
5’10”, athletic build, salt-and-pepper hair (and no, not bald 😄), affectionate, curious, a little possessive, but always kind. I have a demanding career I care about, and I’m a devoted father of two, but I make time for someone who truly matters.

If this feels like the spark you’ve been missing I'd love to know what your unpopular opinion is… What statement would you defend until you die? If that's too extreme, what movie/ TV series have you watched recently that made you cry?

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u/Dull-Government4758 — 22 hours ago

39 [M4F] BC PST Do you know what it feels like to be adored?

Show the men that you can actually read those posts, ladies!

I’m looking for a girlfriend - note the “A” before the “girlfriend”. I’m not interested in talking to multiple women once we’ve established a connection, and I hope you feel the same, too! I would love to be able to meet in person eventually, so please reach out only if that could be a possibility in the future AND you have the time to devote to it.

Now that the sticky part is out, Hi!! I’m looking for a best friend who’s missing that adoration at home. Do you feel neglected and lonely, and your life just a simulation of paying bills and running the house? Do you miss talking about your day with someone who listens and appreciates you? Are you missing the possessive attention someone who adores you could lavish, and make you relearn what adoration means? Do you miss those “good morning”, “good night” and “I’m thinking of you” messages? You’ve come to the right spot!

If you can actively engage in a conversation, ask questions and not respond with 2 word answers, you will get more energy in return without being left on read, and that’s a promise. I value a real connection with a woman who adds intensity consistently to our lives without blowing them up. I can drive those intellectual talks mixed with flirty tensions and physical desire that makes each other feel wanted.

I’m 5’10”, athletic build, not bald (lol), salt pepper hair, extremely affectionate, inquisitive, possessive, kind and friendly. I work a demanding job that I’m passionate about while at home I’m a devoted father of 2, but I’ll always make time for the right woman.

If this sounds like a spark you’ve been missing in your life, please reach out and tell me, which was the last romantic movie that made you sob?

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u/Dull-Government4758 — 6 days ago

39[M4F] #BC PST Do you know what it feels like to be adored?

Show the men that you can actually read those posts, ladies!

I’m looking for a girlfriend - note the “A” before the “girlfriend”. I’m not interested in talking to multiple women once we’ve established a connection, and I hope you feel the same, too! I would love to be able to meet in person eventually, so please reach out only if that could be a possibility in the future AND you have the time to devote to it.

Now that the sticky part is out, Hi!! I’m looking for a best friend who’s missing that adoration at home. Do you feel neglected and lonely, and your life just a simulation of paying bills and running the house? Do you miss talking about your day with someone who listens and appreciates you? Are you missing the possessive attention someone who adores you could lavish, and make you relearn what adoration means? Do you miss those “good morning”, “good night” and “I’m thinking of you” messages? You’ve come to the right spot!

If you can actively engage in a conversation, ask questions and not respond with 2 word answers, you will get more energy in return without being left on read, and that’s a promise. I value a real connection with a woman who adds intensity consistently to our lives without blowing them up. I can drive those intellectual talks mixed with flirty tensions and physical desire that makes each other feel wanted.

I’m 5’10”, athletic build, not bald (lol), salt pepper hair, extremely affectionate, inquisitive, possessive, kind and friendly. I work a demanding job that I’m passionate about while at home I’m a devoted father of 2, but I’ll always make time for the right woman.

If this sounds like a spark you’ve been missing in your life, please reach out and tell me, which was the last romantic movie that made you sob?

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u/Dull-Government4758 — 6 days ago

39[M4F] PST BC Do you know what it feels like to be adored?

Show the men that you can actually read those posts, ladies!

I’m looking for a girlfriend - note the “A” before the “girlfriend”. I’m not interested in talking to multiple women once we’ve established a connection, and I hope you feel the same, too! I would love to be able to meet in person eventually, so please reach out only if that could be a possibility in the future AND you have the time to devote to it.

Now that the sticky part is out, Hi!! I’m looking for a best friend who’s missing that adoration at home. Do you feel neglected and lonely, and your life just a simulation of paying bills and running the house? Do you miss talking about your day with someone who listens and appreciates you? Are you missing the possessive attention someone who adores you could lavish, and make you relearn what adoration means? Do you miss those “good morning”, “good night” and “I’m thinking of you” messages? You’ve come to the right spot!

If you can actively engage in a conversation, ask questions and not respond with 2 word answers, you will get more energy in return without being left on read, and that’s a promise. I value a real connection with a woman who adds intensity consistently to our lives without blowing them up. I can drive those intellectual talks mixed with flirty tensions and physical desire that makes each other feel wanted.

I’m 5’10”, athletic build, not bald (lol), salt pepper hair, extremely affectionate, inquisitive, possessive, kind and friendly. I work a demanding job that I’m passionate about while at home I’m a devoted father of 2, but I’ll always make time for the right woman.

If this sounds like a spark you’ve been missing in your life, please reach out and tell me, which was the last romantic movie that made you sob?

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u/Dull-Government4758 — 6 days ago