39 [M4F] #BC PST - That ‘A’ in ‘A Girlfriend’ Isn’t Optional.
I’m looking for a girlfriend. That “a” matters. Once we’ve built a real connection, I’m not interested in juggling multiple conversations, and I hope you feel the same. I’d also like this to lead to something real eventually, so please reach out only if meeting in person could be a possibility down the road and you have the time to invest in something meaningful.
No one-word replies or disappearing acts, please. I'd appreciate you letting me know if it isn't working out for you, and I'll do the same. Let's treat each other with a bit more kindness and respect.
Now that the serious part is out of the way… hi 😊
I’m looking for a best friend who feels like something is missing at home. Maybe life has turned into routines, responsibilities, and going through the motions. Maybe you miss being truly seen, appreciated, and desired.
Do you miss sharing your day with someone who actually listens?
Do you miss those “good morning” and “good night” messages and check-ins that make you smile?
Do you miss feeling wanted desperately, thought about, and… just a little claimed in the best way?
If you can hold a conversation, ask questions, and bring real energy, I promise you’ll get the same in return. I don't expect (or need) 24/7 texting, just consistent communication, attention, and effort. I value a connection that adds intensity and excitement to our lives without turning them upside down. I'm not looking for single women or cake eaters, and I'm hoping you aren't, too.
Please be married, and emotionally available.
About me:
5’10”, athletic build, salt-and-pepper hair (and no, not bald 😄), affectionate, curious, a little possessive, but always kind. I have a demanding career I care about, and I’m a devoted father of two, but I make time for someone who truly matters.
If this feels like the spark you’ve been missing I'd love to know what your unpopular opinion is… What statement would you defend until you die? If that's too extreme, what movie/ TV series have you watched recently that made you cry?