Do SDs from the same areas talk to each other?
I guess that’d be privileged info. Here’s the context: I was getting along REALLY well with my first ever SD. I caught feels when I kind of barely know the guy because he saved me from getting more desperate. I mean, I actually caught feels for him because he’s very reserved, intelligent, came up on his own, has good taste, he’s nice to animals, got tested right away, and the best lay I’ve ever had. I have a way better job, moving out of my mom’s house, getting back into school, finally getting divorced payed for. This was literally from like a couple months where he’d throw me like 300 every week to fix my car, and deal with emergencies. It helped me gain independence, now I want to hang out with him for free :/. Anyway, I could tell he was probably slowing down? Getting avoidant, not feeling it. Another guy from Seeking just wanted to meet to grab lunch and I went. I could just be a loser that got ghosted twice, but it almost seemed like a test? It was really weird, after the other guy took me out they basically went silent. Last time I heard from the guy I caught feels for, was a week ago. The other guy wanted to make out, but never followed up with me to meet up again. I’m probably driving myself insane, the timing was just so weird. I expected to be ghosted a lot sooner in the bowl, hope he finds what he’s looking for though. I’m pretty sure he blocked me. Follow up question, if I didn’t just fail a very elaborate fidelity test, when would be a good time for me to get back on Seeking? I’m considering staying in the bowl basically just to find another man who’s older, smarter, low commitment, and less dramatic than men my age. Would it be tacky of me to just post all of my new gym pics? Should I hold out for him to potentially hit my line again? TBH I come from feckless trailer park people that can’t tie their own shoes and SDs can usually give pretty stellar financial advice. Has anyone else been serial ghosted like that? Are these guys friends? Are they in the same Telegram or something? Am I Tom Cruise in Eyes Wide Shut?