u/Awkward_vanilla2858

I'm choosing between two clubs at the moment and I can't get over how one of them's house fees are so high, 115 to work on any weekday...including like a Monday? Only night shift and then 160 for a weekend shift, I have to sell three fifty doller dances in order to make house.

I like to work a lot and I like weekday shifts where there's less competition and I have a chance to sell customers on my personality and longer quality over quantity bookings. But I can't justify paying 115 to work on a weekday when I have no idea how busy the clubs gonna be yknow?

If yall have high house fees how do you gamble whether its worth it? I haven't left negative yet, but at my old club there was no house fees so im struggling to adjust.

I've moved countries and both clubs I've been doing shifts at's VIP rooms are these large rooms for multiple dances, neither club has a single totally private vip room 🙄 its so frustrating, I cannot promise that its 'more private' unless I've seen that theres no one in there or its early on in the night, with one club the rooms so small it legit looks like an orgy going on with naked girls tightly packed in.

The other larger club is a bit easier to sell because theres a private pole, more space for things like body shots, and a curtain between sections but I'm struggling especially since it seems like every club is a quantity over quality club promoting 'trying out a bunch of different girls' for $50 two songs dances. I'm used to spending hours in vip talking and selling my personality and the privacy and now im finding it hard to get more than two bookings in vip a night especially when it gets 'booked out'​

I have a major shopping problem, I struggle to not drop thousands of dollers on clothes, nice things and eating out, I delude myself into thinking its a good use of my money but I've started at a new club and can no longer rely on making 1k a night since I'm still adjusting to the new hustle style. And I've just moved apartments so I need to save for furniture, rent and other boring adult stuff.

Dancers w problems saving how did you learn to manage it? I feel like I just see the money and ignore how much of it needs to be put away for house fees and 'boring' stuff

Its like I need to lock myself out of my account...I mean i did, one of my cards got flagged for 'fraudulent' transactions which was just me magically buying designer shoes and now I have to arrange to unblock it.