u/Available_Fox8872

40 [M4F] #OH Just wanting to be someone’s new obsession

I feel like there's a billion and a half posts of M4F here, so I worry if anyone who should see this is going to see this. But if you're reading, hi :)

I tried just replying to F4M posts here, but after about 20 with no reply, I figured this was worth a shot. I, like most here just want a connection. I want the intimacy, the flirting, the desire. I want to make you smile when you see my message pop up and I want the same. I want a genuine connection, let's not fake it just because we're lonely. Be funny, be genuine, be available most of the time, but I also understand and expect that your IRL situation means we can't talk all the time, and that's OK. At some point early on, I'd like to exchange pics (SFW). I believe attraction should play a part in this, and if you think I'm hideous then you can say you need to move on and it's cool. I want you to be attracted to me as much as I wanna be drawn to you.

I say these things with humility, but hey it's a sales pitch, right? I'm a funny guy, I'm gonna make you laugh on a pretty regular basis. I love to listen and be there for people, so if you need to vent/yell/cry/scream, I got you. I am very much in touch with and able to talk about my feelings, and I want you to be able to also. This is important to me. If you make me feel things, I'm going to want to tell you so you know how you're affecting me. And I hope you will for me, too. I'm well educated, fully employed, and financially stable. I highly enjoy fashion, good hair, and shopping. I WILL ask you about your Bath and Body Works shopping habits, because I am a regular customer. So be ready!

I want this to be an escape. I may or may not want to discuss my IRL situation. I may or may not ask about yours. Feel free to say as little as you want, but I'm here to have an escape from my situation, so I'm not going to want it to be a common topic for us.

I know it's cliche AF, but I'm really not like most men. It's hard to explain but Im different, but I think you'll find it intriguing, or alluring, maybe even attractive. Who knows, give it a shot. I am not looking for this to get NSFW right away, but if that's where it leads us, then I'm prepared. Just know it's not on the top of my list, I wanna connect first.

I feel like I've said too much, I want to leave something for us to talk about. If you're interested, or curious, or just want to see what might happen, DM me. Tell me your favorite spring Bath and Body scent so I know you made it through my essay. Hope I hear from you :)

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