22[F4A] #NorCal #Online Sub Looking for Ruthless yet Gentle Dom
About the Dynamic
First off, I’m a lesbian and feel no attraction to men, especially romantically. That being said, I am more than happy to have a dynamic with one and still enjoy the D/S dynamic regardless, as long as my kinky side is satisfied. I want someone who relishes the psychological side of BDSM without coming on too strong at first. Let our dynamic BUILD. You should also value safety and comfort for both the dom and sub in the dynamic! Aftercare and safe words are a must with me. Please also be flexible with my schedule. I am not available 24/7, and cannot neglect my education :) Keep in mind I commute to school and live with family, so discretion is a must! I will also not be sending any images until I feel comfortable and safe. If we click, it should be no more than 1-2 weeks of simply building the dynamic over messaging.
The dynamic will be built on our kinks, though I do love tasks! Especially creative ones. It will start online, but there’s potential for it developing further.
Kinks
Conditioning (psychologically), bondage, edging, orgasm control/denial, soft impact play, light pain, overstimulation, sensory deprivation, hypno, wardrobe control, power exchange, praise, soft degradation, being teased (I love getting so wet where I leak through panties and/or clothes)
Limits
punching, hard slapping, vomit, scat, blood, permanent damage, anything illegal, extreme public, anal (a soft limit, but I’m a bit hesitant on it), watersports, extreme pain, guns, knives
About Me
I’m 5’2”, about 110 lbs, light skin, curly brown hair with blonde highlights, brown eyes, 30A cups, have a few tattoos, and a belly button piercing. I’ve been in one previous longterm dynamic (it was online, but we split due to different needs), but that was 4 years ago. I’ve had vanilla relationships since, and am currently single. Outside of kink, I am a full time college student (last year, but I’m planning on applying for doctorate programs) and work part time. I love reading (especially fantasy!), musicals, gaming (fortnite, BG3, stardew valley, etc), most forms of music, my cats, sweet treats, and self care! I am also very much a leftist and feminist. Submission is a choice, not a right.
Please message with some basic information about yourself, your experience as a dom(me), your own kinks/limits and expectations, and anything else you might want to add!