Steps to be sure you want to do this?
My wife and I went to see a movie recently and a guy she had hooked up with in the past happened to be seated a few feet away. I had no idea who he was until she told me later, but thinking back there were definitely some glances exchanged. When she finally did tell me she thought I'd be mad. I'm feeling the opposite. The more I think about it the more I love the idea of her sitting right next to me, quietly remembering the times she had been with him and whoever else she used to fool around with back then.
This was a situation that further solidified that I think I'm interested in trying this lifestyle, but it feels like the gap between how we feel now and fully taking the leap is a huge obstacle. I want it to be a positive experience for both of us. Has anyone else taken specific steps to get themselves to the right mindset?