r/sfbaypersonals

42 [M4M] #UnionCity - Gloryhole Hosting

Hosting a gloryhole today, anytime after 2pm through tomorroe morning at my hotel room in Union City. Room will be dimly lit, stick your dick into the hole in the curtain. Stay for as little or as long as you like. Be ddf, and between the ages of 18-47. Uncut is a ++++. Send a dick pic with your reply.

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u/phoenixspirit1983 — 1 hour ago

51 [M4F] #Peninsula - seeking passion, sensuality and compassion

I'm a 51 year old man that travels extensively but works in the Bay Area / Redwood City. I've lost the passion, sensuality and compassion at home, it's made me very lonely and aching for a connection that shares those needs.

I have no preference for age / race, but I do desire someone that can hold a conversation. This will likely be balanced between online and in person. My time will be limited but I would like to find someone that would like something in person as well.

I'm a taller guy, a bit larger than average but very active, an outdoor person, exercise daily. I've been told I'm handsome, friendly and smart. I have a lot of wisdom to share with someone old and young and have traveled the globe quite literally. I'm also an experienced Daddy Dom / Soft Dom if you happen to be into BDSM or kink.

If this sounds like you, please write!

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u/throwaway_98321 — 1 hour ago

50 [M4F] #Embarcadero - will be in town for work, seeking a playful connection

Traveling to SF for work week of 4/12 and seeking a fun female who wants to help add some excitement to my stay. I have a wide range of kinks and even a naughty bucket list. Let’s chat and see if we vibe. I will be free every night and can host at my hotel

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u/Few_Possibility_6497 — 2 hours ago

28 [M4M] #Fremont - Straight guy looking for straight guy

Im 28 Asian, average body average cock. Looking for another DL straight guy. Never been with another guy. I am very discreet and low key, hoping that you are too.

If you’re straight, in good shape, want to explore, then hit me up. Tired of being ghosted by guys with post nut clarity. If you’re scared or not sure, don’t waste my time. Let’s talk, figure things out together and go from there. I’m horny and looking for someone that’s serious and open to taking things slow.

I don’t want a serious relationship. I’m just horny and down to hookup from time to time if the vibe is right. Down to meet anywhere in the bay area.

To be clear, im looking to get to know you on a personal level before jumping into things. This would be my first time with any guy. Send stats and be willing to send pics otherwise I will not entertain. Short and boring messages will also be ignored. Thanks!

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u/jdoom8 — 10 hours ago

43 [M4M] #SanJose - Looking to worship d*ck tonight.

Hey all, my name is Shawn, Vietnamese, 5'4", 160 lbs, located in San Jose. Looking to worship your dick.

I can host in North San Jose or travel for car play—I have tinted windows and a windshield cover.

You: Be local, HWP, drug- and disease-free, and able to host or be mobile. !unlokced!

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u/ShawnfromSJ408 — 9 hours ago

35 [M4F] #Peninsula - Can you handle 6-10 hours of pure pleasure? Fit, attractive guy seeking a fun partner for tailored sessions in luxury settings

Hi!

About me:

35M , 178cm, 168lb, cute and muscular Build.

Clean, meticulous, and always immaculate: freshly showered, perfectly groomed, cologne dialed in, nails trimmed, tested & ready. Hygiene is non-negotiable; I show up smelling and feeling like luxury because you deserve nothing less.

I’m a 35-year-old pleasure-first dom who is open to host you in a luxury setting across the Bay. Your comfort, boundaries, and pleasure are my priority—I check in constantly, read every gasp and shiver, and adjust on the fly. But when you beg for it, I go feral: primal, rough, relentless.

Upfront, honest communication is mandatory. Tell me your limits, your fantasies, your safe word—no judgment, total clarity and I’ll make sure to provide safe, sane, consensual, and mind-blowingly hot times together!

If you’re a confident woman who craves being adored and absolutely wrecked in the same night, slide into my DMs with your age, a sentence about what you need, and your hard limits.

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u/Pleasantvibe99 — 16 hours ago

31 [M4M] #NoeValley - Free full body rubdown for you?

I am looking to give a full body rubdown. The rubdown will last 45 minutes to an hour that will end with you being edged.

me: 31, m, 6’0, 180, bi discreet/dl, ddf, with over 10 years of experience

Be fit, ddf, able to host (I can travel anywhere), and not over 50 (will make an exception)

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u/BowlerMuch6283 — 12 hours ago

31 [M4F] #Stonestown - looking for a girl to go down on

Hey! 31 years old, white, 5’8, 160 lbs, ddf. Looking for a pillow princess who will let me spend hours pleasing her! Open to all levels of experience. If you’re more experienced, guide me through what really sets you off. If you’re inexperienced, let’s explore what makes you tick. My goal is to leave your legs shaking by the end and wet pussy craving for more.

I’m fine with no reciprocation - I will not pressure you to do anything at any point, and certainly would do everything I can to help you feel safe and comfortable.

Please be ddf and ready to be pleased. I have my own place near Stonestown and can host, but also open to meeting first before getting into anything.

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u/No-Instruction-239 — 12 hours ago

54 [M4F] #Millbrae - SFO flight attendants, you deserve a muff dive on your layover!

You’re on your feet serving others all day, you deserve to be on your back getting served afterwards. I promise to listen to all flight crew instructions, except your seat back is staying in the reclined position.

I work at SFO and I thought it would be fun to take care of a flight attendant, either once, or as a regular flight. I don’t know what the sleeping arrangements are for the flight crew overnight, but I can host in Emeryville (other side of the Bay Bridge) or do room service.

I’m 5’8/165 and often told I’m attractive. I’ll send you a recent selfie if you respond so you can decide for yourself.

As long as there’s a mutual attraction, I’m open to making a connection.

This is truly just about serving you. I don’t want anything in return; not even peanuts.

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u/MotorcyclesNchilies — 13 hours ago

30 [M4M] #sanjose - 5’4 blonde looking to give head

Hey just looking for a guy that wants his dick sucked this afternoon. I can’t host but I can stop by and help you nut before you get your weekend started

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u/SouthernMud7225 — 21 hours ago

60 [M4F] #Oakland - a hug and a kiss

Where would you like me to kiss you?

Forehead?

Cheek?

Lips?

Hand?

I’m clean, smell like a respectable member of society, am well-educated, sophisticated but practical.

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u/onetimediscard — 14 hours ago

45 [M4F] #PacHeights - Focused breast play for the extra sensitive

I'd like to slowly explore your extra sensitive breasts. Groped and squeezed while lounging watching TV, feeling a nipple grow between my fingers, and discovering the perfect combination of suction and swirling tongue that drives you wild. Focused breast play without rushing towards an alternate agenda. Let's discover the heights of your pleasure only possible when someone is focused on your pleasure, your thoughts are immersed in desire, and you start to notice the small changes in your body. Curious if you could orgasm from breast play alone? We'd have a lot of fun finding out!

We might be a good, playful match if you:

  1. Have perky, sensitive breasts C cup or smaller.
  2. Would like to slow down and be more present in your arousal as it washes over you.
  3. Somewhere in between 20 and 40 years of age.
  4. Are in San Francisco or near enough to make plans.

I'm 45, single, live in the Pacific Heights area of San Francisco, and able to host. 6' tall, respectful, sane, discreet, and interested in slowly exploring your breasts and their unique sources of pleasure. Capable of carrying on a conversation before and in between breast dives and vocalizing my appreciation of your unique breast features and sensitivity throughout the experience. You might have caught me glancing too long at the outline of your breasts during the recent bra-optional weather while commuting to my professional job downtown, waiting for good coffee or espresso, or browsing a farmers market.

You could have many opportunities for a general hookup, but fewer opportunities for slow, building, focused pleasure from someone interested in discovering your unique sources of arousal. Matched with an obvious fan of your breast size, shape, and sensitivity for extended play with no need to question if I'm enjoying myself or expect more.

Let's lounge and enjoy slowly exploring, and fully appreciating, your extra sensitive breasts. You might be curious about the unmet potential of focused breast play and what's possible with lots of attention from an obvious enthusiast. If you've wished for more breast play as a focus, not just foreplay, I think we'd have a lot of fun.

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u/BreastFanSF — 15 hours ago

33 [M4A] #WalnutCreek - looking for something ongoing as bull/1 on 1/ or 3some (Walnut Creek though Brentwood)

33-year-old Black, athletic male. Confident, assertive, and discreet. I know what I bring to the table and I move with intention. Well-kept, masculine energy, and yes BBC if that matters.

Looking for couples or solo individuals who want discreet, no-drama fun with someone who can take the lead. Open to a one-time meet or something ongoing if the chemistry is right. I don’t rush—we’ll chat first to make sure the vibe is mutual.

I cannot host, but I’m flexible and willing to travel or do car play anywhere from Walnut Creek through Brentwood.

Availability: weekday daytime (9am–3pm) works best for me.

Discretion, respect, and clear communication are non-negotiable. Verification is required so we both know we’re real—I’m happy to do the same.

As long as this post is up, I’m still looking. I typically respond daily. If you’re confident, curious, and know what you want, send a message and let’s see if we align.

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u/nastynate90 — 20 hours ago

33 [M4M] #Mission - curious to give a HJ

Looking to give a non-recip helping hand to another straight/curious guy today after work. I’m chill, discrete, clean, and can host. We can watch porn while I do it or you can just kick back and relax.

Also willing to set up a makeshift glory hole if you are looking for more privacy.

Hit me up with your info if you are seriously interested in meeting up and getting off!

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u/mytornado82 — 20 hours ago

28 [M4F] #WalnutCreek - looking to please

Hi looking to host somebody’s this weekend or come to you for a spoiling session. All I want to do is make this pleasurable for whom I am with.

All ages, races and body types are great with me. I’m into it all, don’t be shy

Maybe you’re married and neglected? Or shy and need something to build your confidence… in a dry spell… or just want to. I don’t care the reason but am happy to serve you.

I am a natural pleaser. Your pleasure is my pleasure.

I love to kiss and makeout, give massages and take care of my partner.

Happy to accommodate most fantasy’s or kinks or just vanilla.

I’m white, 6ft with a muscular dad bod.

If you’re interested in getting pleased…chat me and let’s see if we click

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u/Fun-Flounder3452 — 21 hours ago

30 [M4F] #Eastbay — Older Daddy for Little One

Not your average man on here. 6ft, middle eastern, 220lb of mainly muscle, educated, fit, hung, and successful. I’m DDF, always get tested prioritizing health and safety.

I’m hoping to find a little one as a friend and more. Work keeps me incredibly busy but I’m hoping to change that with the right person. Life isn’t about the breaths you take. It’s about how many take your breath away. Hope to hear from you—little one.

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u/BigGunz1990 — 16 hours ago
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