r/seekingthrouples

Hey! We’re a married couple seeking new connections all around Europe and maybe all around the globe. Just text us and say hi! We’re open to anybody who is charming and interesting :-) see ya!

Hi. I am single, mid 30s, looking for a long-term triad with a couple. I don't have issues with age gaps. I can travel and even willing to migrate if things work out. Otherwise, we can also just have a nice chat and maybe meet for holidays. Pretty opened and open-minded.

I am a stay-at-home disabled veteran, with all my limbs, who enjoys reading, running, music and audiobooks, PC games, TV shows and movies, pestering my cats, and taking care of whatever needs doing around the house. 

My wife is a former college professor crossed with a sweet little Italian grandma, all wrapped up in a busy, book-loving professional author and editor who spends a great deal of time in her office working on “stuff and things,” as she likes to say. 

We are looking for a wholesome, stable V or triad where we support, respect, and love one another.

If you are interested, curious, or have questions, send a message and let’s chat.

47M4F - OR - COUPLE - For high intensity play - Tampa/ Lakeland area

I'll get right to the point. I'm a guy who knows what he's looking for.

I've never done anything like this before and have no idea if I'll get any response at all, but I figured what the fuck? Let's throw this on Reddit and see if the internet is as insane as it seems to be.

I'm a 47, straight, white, red-blooded male. Going to be in the Tampa, FL area in late June through about mid-July.

I'm looking for a totally anonymous, ONE-TIME, zero-strings-attached day/night of fun and serious risk play with a like-minded girl/woman or the right couple.

This would only be raw, animalistic, intense, fun, pure sex and sex play.

Here's the kicker (and I may lose anyone left reading this here.) It needs to involve what you might consider the ultimate risk: breeding.

I would not be pulling out. I WOULD be cumming inside of your pussy. Probably multiple times. No condoms would be used. I am completely clean and would give you the updated STI screenings to prove it (and you'd need to give me yours too). VERY strong preference if you are NOT on any birth control as well.

This would be unprotected sex at its most intense. Involving one of the biggest potential consequences that act can produce. It would be one night of fun, high risk, high potential consequence, but high reward too. Think back to If you've ever had sex and just said "fuck it, we'll just go raw" - I'd guess there was a certain raging hormonal intensity about it that probably made it super hot? You'll get that but kick it up a level, cause you know you'll never see me again and I won't even share my real name (I don't want to know yours either - this is totally anonymous for you and me).

Total shot in the dark here, but here's what I'd ideally find in this one-night partner(s):

\-White cis female, (race is not a huge factor,, but white is just what came to mind) - or COUPLE

\-20s - 30s (though I'll go outside those ranges a little -- obviously not under 18!)

\-Fit and athletic and healthy, non-smoker

\-Shaved pussy preferred

\-New to this scene and maybe willing to try something new for one night only, or maybe you're a little more experienced and would want just a different experience

\-Comfortable (as much as you can be) with the risk here

Bonus points if you've done this kind of thing before and wouldn't back out at the last second

MAJOR bonus points if you are or were a soccer player. (If you still play, you'll probably get some new soccer gear out of it!)

HUGE bonus points if you are actually NOT on any birth control at all. No pills, no iuds, no implants - nothing. I am NOT snipped and am very potent. I've got multiple kids and have been tested with really high sperm numbers and quality (humble brag there!).

HIGHEST bonus points possible if we connect right around your ovulation.

Here's the thing - I am NOT really looking to get you pregnant, despite all evidence to the contrary! The chances of it happening after one night of sex are obviously way higher than zero, especially if you're mid-cycle, but it's not like every instance of sex around ovulation ends up with someone knocked up! If only it were so easy for everyone! It's the risk that I'm after here. I want the chance to be there. I want us both to know that it's really stupid and that we shouldn't do this and that there's still time for me to pull out right up until the very last second until you wrap your legs around my ass and pull me in as deep as possible and cum buckets inside you. Fuck! Yeah, there might be some "what the fuck did we just do??" thoughts immediately initially, but the deed will be done with no undoing it now. I'm 100% positive that I'll be able to go again really quickly after that, and we'll just say fuck it and add millions more to the millions of sperm swimming inside you hunting for your egg. The knowing we shouldn't but both of us making the decision to do it anyway - that's what I'm after and hopefully that helps you cum too.

You probably want to know what my thoughts are if you got pregnant? Well, what you choose to do would be ENTIRELY up to you. I'm 100% of the mindset that it is your body and you get to make any choice you want with it. If you wanted an abortion, that's totally up to you. I'd pay for that. If you want to take the morning after pill, I'd be less crazy about that, but I'd buy it for you. If you chose to keep it, 100% okay too. But remember, you won't know me and we will have extremely limited contact after this night. Not interested in leaving my wife or raising another kid jointly. I know there are all sorts of legal issues there, but you'd need to be on board with the no contact plan. I would be.

It's the kind of thing I know I should NOT do. I'm married with kids and I'm NOT looking to destroy my marriage and leave my amazing wife for you. If all goes well, the only people to ever know this happened will be me and you. That's it. My wife is awesome and hot and everything I want. I just need to get this one night out of my system and scratch that itch. Purely physical connection with someone else and that's it.

What do you get with me?

47 white cis male from a good family. Reasonably fit. You might say I had a dad bod up until sort of recently, but exercising a lot lately and now in pretty decent shape (runner, former soccer player). Circumcised, above average size penis. Healthy, non-smoker, with decent longevity in my family - pretty solid genes. Not crazy (despite what you might think reading this!) and generally a good guy who would never step out on his wife. In fact, you would be the first and last "affair" if you even want to call it that. You would be the last girl I sleep with for the first time. I'm not going to tell you that I have a monster 24-inch cock and that you'll cum 85 times in a row (though you're welcome to cum as many times as you want!) I will spend my time and try to give you as much pleasure as humanly possible. But I'm not going to make empty promises. I think the circumstances and taboo tension alone will be enough to ensure we both have a really good time.

This is insane sounding, I know it. And I doubt anything will come of it - but I thought there might be a girl out there who's down for something REALLY risky and likely REALLY hot.

I'm game to play however you want too. I have some real light role-play stuff in mind, but nothing freaky at all (unless wearing your soccer uniform is too freaky for ya!) - the main driver for me is the risk of playing like this. Other than that, I'm open to almost anything you'd want to do. Role play dressing up or acting of any kind, sub/Dom dynamics, (probably not poop or pee play) but almost anything else is fair game. Not super into the idea of a third person being there (male or female) but I'd be open to discussing playing with a couple like this as long as everyone knew the risks that are on the table here. (If a third was involved, I'd of course need a clean, very recent STI screening from them as well.)

I'd grab us a nice hotel room for the day/night and it would be go-time from check-in to check-out. Of course I'd spring for meals, drinks and whatever that night.

Again, this would happen in the Tampa Bay area any time from mid-late June - mid-July 2026, hopefully based around your ovulation schedule. ;)

No names, no personal details (apart from STI screenings!), I don't even want your phone number and won't give you mine. Just a raw, uninhibited, playful, sinful and intense night of sex. No strings attached. Just fun. Incredibly risky fun.

If any or all of this sounds appealing or interesting to you, drop me a DM and let me know. I'll hit you up for sure.

This is a legit proposal. Again, I'm a guy who knows what he's looking for.

Hey there. I got alot of love to shower, and one person isn't enough. I would love to try out a throuple and see how much I can give you both

Hey everyone, I’m a 25 year old guy based in NY/Long Island looking to connect with a couple interested in adding a third to their dynamic.

I’m pretty easygoing fun loving, outgoing, and drama-free. I enjoy good conversation, going out, staying active, and just vibing with the right people. I value communication, respect, and making sure everyone feels comfortable and included.

Ideally looking for something within a commutable distance so we can actually spend quality time together and build something real not just online.

If you’re a couple looking for someone genuine, chill, and open-minded, feel free to reach out. Happy to chat and see if we click 🙂

I am really looking for a genuine connection with someone special. I value kindness and respect above everything else, and I have always felt more comfortable and attracted to someone older than me. I feel like they have more life experience and know how to treat a woman right.

Distance really doesn't matter to me at all because I believe if there is real chemistry and understanding, nothing can stand in the way. I think it’s best to start off as friends first, get to know each other deeply, and build a solid foundation of trust. From there, we can just let things flow naturally and see where this journey takes us.