r/male_sex_toys

Hey all,

I’ve recently started using trimix and have finally found the sweet spot where I can maintain an erection for around 2 hours.

The challenge is that I’m not always able to have sex with my wife when I use it, but I genuinely enjoy the feeling of being hard without much effort.

I’m aware of the guidelines (no more than once in 24 hours and no more than 3 times per week), so I’m sticking to that.

Since I can last quite a while—and due to prostate surgery I can’t ejaculate (only orgasm)—I’ve been thinking about getting a male toy to use solo when needed.

For those with similar experiences, are there any good toys that work well for longer sessions like this? Ideally something that stays comfortable and stimulating over time rather than being too intense right away. Also, something fairly discreet or easy to hide would be a big plus.

Edit: I should also mention I’m bisexual and have been considering anal toys as well. I’m just not sure how prostate removal might affect sensation with that—would love to hear from anyone with experience there.

Appreciate any recommendations or insights.