r/gentlefemdom

Don’t know if this is common, but I love hearing what people are into, almost more than actually messing around. Props if it’s something really embarrassing. Is that a kink of its own? Like getting off on a confession? I so wanna know if it’s more common than I think. Obviously, I’d also love to hear what kinks everyone has, especially around femdom 💓

one of my friends from high school invited me out to a punk show because I'm getting over a breakup, and it turned into a whole weekend of drinking and being stupid.

I'm 19, so I'm still new to all of this, and thought I was handling it well, but on the second night when I got out to the parking lot of the dive we were at, my ride home had disappeared.

And then it was like all of the anxiety I would normally feel around that many people from the whole weekend hit at once. next thing I know I was ugly crying on the concrete in a ball. I was incredibly crossed, so i didn't really know what was going on and couldn't see clearly, but 2 absolutely wonderful women gave me a cigarette, talked me back down until I knew where I was, and helped me into the DJs car because he said he would take me back to my house.

I can't get one of these strangers out of my head.

the way she held my chin and made me look up at her is still rattling around my brain. i didn't really even see her face until the next day when I apologized over DMs, but it still flipped that "liquify" switch in my brain. (and I think that's the only reason I got to the car)

I plan on going back to another show and then the same dive next weekend because a band I liked is playing, and my roommate wants to come this time. I seriously don't know whether to completely avoid her to avoid embarrassing myself, or try to talk to her and actually properly meet her...

You weren’t doing anything unusual. Just breathing. One inhale. You’ve done it thirty thousand times today without thinking about it. This time I was watching. And when something has your full attention, time stops behaving correctly. You won’t be able to locate how long that breath took.

This is the surface. Some go deeper.

My voice, your mind. Enjoy.

Hello everyone!

I’ve been on Reddit for a few weeks now, and I’ve had a lot of fun in certain communities playing the role of the Dom.

Then I met a Domme and we started chatting. She quickly got to know me well, starting with some gentle domination, giving me little affectionate nicknames, and so on.

Then she became increasingly dominant. Yesterday, for example, she told me she’d love to tie me to her bed, put me in a chastity cage, and torture me for hours.

We’ve been playing around with the idea that I mustn’t masturbate for a while now. I’m doing my best to stick to it. But the whole cage thing… 🫠 It turned me on so much that I woke up this morning unable to stop myself from rubbing against the mattress, then, lying on my back, just like in her scenario, rubbing my nipples.

I’d had orgasms before just by stimulating my nipples, but this time… Wow! They were so intense that my abs tensed up like rarely before, causing thrusts of incredible power (into thin air 😩). They could have sent her flying if she’d been there to ride me.

And if only she’d been kind enough to remove the cage ^^

I recently read about something and now I can't stop thinking about it. Apparently there used to be a fairly common prank at some American college fraternities where they would require each prospective member to tie a long string to his penis, run it up the front of his clothes and out the top of his shirt, and attach a pencil to the other end. Then he would have to approach sorority girls and ask them to sign a clipboard so he could get accepted into the fraternity. The problem (for him!) was that the girls all knew what was going on, and they would deliberately pull or jerk on the string, causing pain and embarrassment for the poor young male on the receiving end. The girls all thought this was absolutely hilarious! Even though I'm a man myself, I think this sounds kinda hot and would probably have enjoyed it despite the discomfort! What do you all think? Women - would you have done this? Guys - would you have agreed to it? Let me know your thoughts!

I know the title isn't that creative but ive been wanting to tell this story for a while, im personally not that experienced when it comes to this stuff and I would personally call myself a switch, I have moods of wanting to dom and be dominated but for a long time I thought maybe the being dominated side was just me being lonely and liking the idea of someone wanting me in such a way. And maybe thats partly true until a girl actually dommed me.

I meet her of all things here on reddit but none the less we didnt actually do any penetration so it was more foreplay but oh my was it amazing. At first I didnt think we where going to do anything sexual but then she pulled out her tits and next thing you know she is in control and I have a nipple in my mouth. It was such a fun experience having someone control you and dominate you and teach you all the ways your body can feel good, even without my dick being played with besides a small graze.

I couldn't imagine what it would be like to actually have my dick played with in this way since I was already made into a moaning bitch. Its not ever day you learn how sensitive your body is (especially my nipples 😵‍💫) and the things that make you moan . . . but it was amazing.

The only downsides are it was a one time thing and i haven't been able to do anything like this since but also its now made me unfortunately a sub leaning switch 😅 but honestly it was so much fun!

so yeah thats my story of how I confirmed i can be a sub...I may delete this since its embarrassing but yeaaahhh

possibly be friends im 42 m