r/gaydomstraightsub

36M #Belgium #online looking for Dom (check-ins, tasks, occasional live sessions)

I live together with my fiancée (she’s also my sub). She is aware I'm posting this ad. Let it be very clear: she has no interest in being your sub or serving together with me. However, she might be willing to occasionally assist you. You’ll be able to talk with her once the dynamic has been established for a bit. Let it be clear that she/my family is my top priority.

I'm looking for my own (online) dynamic where I can explore my submissive side. Although, in the long run if, I’m open to meet some day if that’s a mutual desire.

Now that we’ve established this, you might be wondering what I’m after.

My biggest turn ons are:
- Chastity (complicated in my relationship, so mostly while my girlfriend is out)
- Anal (plugs, strap on, ...).
- Bondage
- Humiliation
- A bit of pain, but not that much.

My biggest turn offs are:
- Feminization & sissification
- Feet, armpits
- People who can't spell at all.
- People who ghost. If things don’t work out for whatever reason, be an adult and communicate.

Things I’m open to:

- Doing discrete stuff while working from home (e.g. wear a butt plug, lock up, ...).
- I appreciate basic rules.
- I’d love to complete and prove interesting tasks (things which take more time, a bit of a bondage session, ...)
- Occasional “live”/cam sessions when my girlfriend is not around (e.g. when she visits a friend and sleeps over).

We have a large toy collection, including: a cock cage, vibrators, plugs, gags, cuffs, ropes, clamps, fucking machine, canes, paddles, ...

I expect to be in touch frequently, even if it’s just a quick check-in.

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u/CuriousSwitch89 — 1 hour ago

21 sub str8 male looking for a dom Looking for a dom

21 sub str8 male looking for a dom

Looking for a dom perfer older and has other subs i dont mind shareing but you can whore me I want to be trained broken till am your perfect toy tech me your kinks the kinker the better If you like what your saying send me a dick pic and own me already and tell me your kinks

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u/silly-goober21 — 5 hours ago

Success story: gay Dom meets straight sub

Just an average late 30s gay dude here, have been into kink and Dom/sub play for well over 15 years. I have been starting to wind down in terms of looking for new subs due to being attached however recently decided to look again. I had pretty low expectations so you can imagine my surprise when I began chatting with a very hot straight dude who stated he was looking for CBT and humiliation. We chatted for a bit online and to my absolute pleasant surprise, arranged a meeting IRL.

Today was our second meet. I welcomed him in and immediately began feeling him up, running my hands all over his perfect body. He was wearing nice tight fitting briefs that I had instructed him to wear and brought a few pairs to model for me also as instructed. The session began with some slaps and squeezing. I asked him how many women he's slept with in his day and when he told me over 50, I thought it only fair to give him a good slap for each one.

Once they were nice and tender I had them tied and stretched before cuffing his hands and restraining him to the bedroom door and making him hold a sign thanking me for using him. Needless to say he felt nice and humiliated. I also came to learn that he wanted unidentifiable photos taken and wanted them posted as well just to add to the humiliation kink.

After having met dozens and dozens of subs in my years in the scene, I have to say he's my favourite and am looking forward to many many more sessions. Don't give up, they are out there :)

u/Capital_Print_5694 — 12 hours ago

First time lets play!

I usually like being the dominant, but I'm willing to be submissive depending on the situation. Living alone, 28M. As a dominant, I'm very creative. (I've never had sex, so I'm very imaginative.)

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u/Additional-Ear9020 — 15 hours ago

19M looking for a serious dom

19M

I am not confident enough to show my whole face.

i am a twink, i am a bit hairy.

i want to send you my pics and get blackmailed with them and get forced to do tasks.

Because i dont live alone i am not always free.

i can do videos aswell.

My limits are, pee, scat, pain, public.

I have a foot fetish.

Only dm me if you are serious about this.

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u/Historical_Wing7998 — 20 hours ago
Week