r/ddlg

A month back, I made a post that “we were ddlg befre we knew what ddlg was”

Last time I saw him was 5 days after Valentine’s Day and spent the night at his house when I had a emotional breakdown.

Then week after week texted briefly. In our dynamic we never talked/texted everyday or saw each other ever so offen.

I looked on Instagram and saw a girl under his comment with a heart emoji and when I clicked on her page…he liked all of her posts.

On top of that, she has pictures of being at his place with heart balloons, red led lights, cuddling with him, and roses. Which I assume was Valentines Day.

I’m crushed because that means I’m basically nothing to him but someone to mess around with. And then why didn’t he tell me about it or go out his way to Uber me to his place and cuddle me and get intimate with me when he has a gf?

Idk what to do. I want to confront him but that will only hurt me more. But if I sit silent then I’ll still be left in the dark.

Hello!! I just met my first daddy through social media and so far he's been so sweet and caring to me. We live really far away from each other (different country) and sometimes he would said some strange things that made me... uncomfortable :< For example, he used to ask if I like cooking and I said I do, then he said that he couldnt wait to have me there and cook for him like a good littl wife everytime he come back from work tired. I told him that I dont think I want to get married and he proceed to said that as a daddy its natural for him to want a family and if Im too little for that he would get another wife that could give him a baby while still have me as his little. We have settled this out, he told me that it was just a hypothetical scenario and we still have a long way to figure things out.

Another example is, I told him that Im still in college and still need to finish my study for another 4 years. Though he used to say that my education is very important, this time he asked if he would fly me to him BEFORE I finish my study and just get me the same course there. I told him that I dont want that since my college now is one of my dream come true, which then he replied with a very pushy tone and makes me feel kinda...scared of him :( Eventually he agreed to let me finish my study first and told me that I have to go to him as soon as I finish it

As you see, most of it we already settled it but I just want to know if this is some early sign of red flag...? (and also sorry if this is kinda hard to read, english isnt my first language 😞😞)