r/ddlb

Hiii to begin with I am going to talk a bit about what exactly I am after and then a bit about myself and whatever else I decide to put.

I am after a very specific abdl/cgl dynamic where you would always treat me as nothing but a little kid/baby no matter what. I would like to feel "forced" into this dynamic, as if you know what is best for me and that being little is all I should do.

I would like to start out as non-sexual and then EVENTUALLY lead into becoming more and more sexual. However I would like this dynamic to stay pretty non-sexual for the most part.

This would be a secret relationship and to outsiders we would be nothing more than really good friends. You MUST be able to host as I practically share a bedroom with my roommate and hotels are too expensive to see each other on a regular basis.

We would start out online with you slowly making me more and more little and reliant on you until we meet up for a hot drink or something to eat. If things go well then we would introduce the abdl/cgl side of things in person and would slowly start to work on the sexual side of things aswell.

Now for the sexual side of things I would like to eventually let you take the lead on everything that happens, but I love the idea of anal training, you putting a plug or vibrator in me then putting me in my diaper and leaving me like that. Basically you would do what you would like and I would have no control over anything.

I also love the idea of you deciding when and if I get my diapers changed and leaving me soaked until you deem it filled enough and changing me, locking me in mittens and a diaper lock so I have no choice but to stay in my diaper and struggle to do anything without your help.

What I would like from you as a caregiver. I would prefer if you were experienced in this field however if you are not but am confident you can deliver please still feel free to dm me! You would hopefully be between the ages of 18-30 but that is also flexible. Must be physically fit, obviously you dont have to be a muscle man but would like you to not be obese please. Finally I do not care about your gender or looks or anything but you must be located in Melbourne as this would be an irl dynamic and I would like to eventually spend as much time together as possible.

Now a bit about myself! I am a 19 year old student who is currently studying patisserie full-time. I am trans male (he/they pronouns) and am getting top surgery done later this year, I am not however getting bottom surgery. I currently take hormones and plan on continuing with that aswell.

In my spare time I like to watch cartoons and anime, build legos, read and cuddle my cat. I am aromantic asexual, this just means I do not experience romantic attraction and I only sometimes experience sexual attraction but am hoping to work on that.

I am a very open person so please feel free to message me any questions you can think of! For my limits they are me doing mouth stuff (due to sensory issues and it also just really grosses me out), intentional pain, blood and misgendering.

Thank you for reading this far and if you are interested please feel free to dm me!