r/Strippers

My CF said she'd like to send me things between visits but wants me to make an offer. Is there any sort of standard or average amount?

I’ve been looking for info on this sub I can’t find it anywhere. Google reviews says the club has basically gone down hill, but I have met high paying clients in the Barrie/Orillia area. It’s the only club up north so I figured it can’t be that bad. I’m going to try it out regardless but would love some info on management and house fees. Thank you.

I am a queer woman and my girlfriend is a pole dancer, and is interested in becoming a stripper pretty soon. Any advice for a partner to be supportive and also just to understand more? I look forward to being her main support system, embracing her, and cheering her on, just want to do my own research and learn from other couples' experiences. Also pretty interested if there are any good media sources like podcasts or books that dive into this topic, specifically with monogamous committed relationship dynamics where one or both partners work in sex work, managing boundaries, fears, and support? Thank you :)

This is kinda rant/vent but also a question. I understand that tips don’t come for free and yall learned from good and bad nights so I respect if you don’t wanna respond lol….but😅 I guess I’m struggling getting dances in a timely manner? My niche is egirl/cosplayer and I cosplay at the club every few days out of the month. People seem to like how genuine I am, my cosplays, how I dance on stage (I do heels/ burlesque dancing) and how much “I love giving lap dances” (this is what I tell them to make them feel special) but I notice I talk ALOT and especially about myself and I wanna learn how to get to the point faster that I’m trying to get them to buy a dance with me and make them feel special/im into them at the same time and also get them to buy one lol. One girl made 1k and was three hours late while I only made like $400 and was there the whole time . I wanna do better!!! How do I get to the point faster and how do I prompt them to ask me for a dance rather than me asking them…I hate asking them sm bro😭

I’m about to move to NYC in a month and I’m interested in finding a job dancing. I am from upstate, and I’m not sure where to start looking as a trans woman. I would like places that are either lgbt, or focused on more niche interests like t-girls. Any options?

Hey guys, I’m looking for some advice on clubs in NYC.

I have some experience working in a club before, but the environment wasn’t really for me. It was mostly Russian girls and I was pretty much the only Black girl there. To be honest, I did run into some weird situations both from clients and some of the girls that felt lowkey biased, so I’m trying to avoid ending up in a similar environment again. I’m mixed (black & white), light-skinned, 5’3, slim/fit with a natural shape and a more “cute/pretty” look rather than super exaggerated. I usually wear my hair straight.

I’m just trying to find a club where my look is appreciated and where I can actually make good money without dealing with that kind of vibe.

If anyone has recommendations for clubs that are more diverse or where girls like me do well, I’d really appreciate it 🙏