r/SoCalR4R

Hello there.

As the title implies, my FWB and I are looking for a third.

Now, regarding whether it's long-term, short-term, or a one-night thing, it will all depend on how we vibe. That's the best answer I could give, because we could be an experiment for you, a one-night thing, or just for the "plot."

We can exchange pics so you can see if we are something you like.

I'm 5'11", 185 lbs, with an athletic build.

And she's 32, 4'9", 118 lbs, a small thing.

We want it to be fun, chill, and no pressure.

She's the shy type, very grounded, and super submissive.

I like going with the flow, with semi-extroverted qualities.

Aftercare will be on the table.

Looking for someone 32 or younger, masc, fit and clean. Hit me up in the dms with age height weight and race.

It warms my soul to think about a submissive woman with a curvy body…

I’m a dom with a strict and sweet personality. Would love to get to know a sub that has a sweet and catering personality that wants the dominance of a partner that knows what he wants and is always clear about communication and needs.

What are your thoughts on the perfect dynamic? What things make your heart swoon and skip to think about?

Looking forward to meeting someone in SoCal for the start of a fun dom/sub dynamic :D

Hi there! Looking for someone who's a soft/daddy/pleasure dom. I'm 5'1, curvy, domestic, and very much the kind of girl who's happiest when she's needed. I'm nerdy, affectionate, playful, silly, and very touchy. I lean heavily into my submissive side and would love to meet someone who enjoys taking the lead.

A few of my kinks include breeding, ownership, praise, choking, and caretaking dynamics. I'm open to different kinds of relationships, whether that's something slow and sweet, something just for play, or something intense and deeply bonded. I'm just outside of Bakersfield, so local is great, but not required.

Tell me what you're looking for, I'd love to see if we vibe! I like to chat before meeting up, so don't expect a quick hookup right off the bat.

Submissive and orally talented bottom in the Scv/sfv area. Looking for a nice cock to swallow and milk dry real quick. DDF only please

Can’t host but my car has tints if you’re down for something like that. If not, I can travel to you.

Huge plus if you shoot heavy loads

HMU

Looking for Cis Females only. No drama guaranteed I’m very discrete.

If you are into cheating kink or just wanna have some fun. Not looking to change my situation so this is no strings attached, one time or ongoing.

I require a recent test and have one to share. No cream pies or unprotected sex.

I'm 30, 5'10, 170 lbs, sane, down to earth, recently tested last month.

Got a picture in my profile for those looking for the D pic. Average size, good for those that want to practice DT.

Please be cis female, femme, 18+, HWP, clean, DDF and recently tested.

Can’t host but can come to you, get a hotel or Carplay works too.

Must be able to verify and be discrete. My hours are limited due to family obligations.

If interested, please respond with age location and stats as I won’t be responding to low effort messages.

What olde gentleman can host that has a big appetite and hung cock. I’m respectful and clean

30M in Hollywood, 5’8 with a thick 8 inch cock. Have been looking for a fwb that would like to genuinely hangout and also fuck each others brains out and explore kinks together. I’d love to go to the movies, out to eat, the beach, out dancing or whatever else. I’m also bilingual and speak fluent Spanish. I have my own place here in Hollywood and a car so no issues there.

If this sounds interesting to you drop me a message :)

IMPORTANT:

1. Females only

2. If interested, send me a chat with your age, location in LA, a general idea of what you are looking to do

3. Be ready to exchange verification pictures

I am an Uber driver that gets pretty bored during the late night hours.

I would like to find a passenger that wants to meet up for some naughty fun with an Uber driver. I can pick you up and we can role play in Uber. I got the newest Tesla with all the bells and whistles that can make our encounter fun. Auto pilot that can drive us around as you give road head, a big screen I can turn porn on, and back seats that go all the way down so you can lie and see the stars through the sunroof.

Or maybe you want me to be your Uber Eats delivery driver and I can make a deliver to your place for some naughty fun.

I am open to other kinks you may have, just send me a chat.

About me: I'm Caucasian, 32, 5'9, 160 lbs, easy on the eyes, down to earth, clean shaven face, uncircumcised cock.

I am DDF and tested clean as of last month and I expect you to be the same. Any penetrating sex will be with a condom.

About you: Please be 18+, Height weight proportional, clean and DDF.

Everything will be descrete and NSA.

Hello-- I'd preferably like to have a FWB I can be consistent with rather than a ONS. I like to think that I'm very respectful, chill, transparent, and someone who holds good chemistry. I'm honestly just a normal dude trying to have a mutually good time.

• 25, 6'0, Korean-Chinese, average build and living in Anaheim.
• Huge PC gamer and traveler. I've explored many countries including going on several international solo trips and often spend time gaming at home.
• I probably follow the OC Asian younger stereotype of wearing Stussy/streetwear, playing Valorant, and drinking matcha but I still refuse to go to seaside bakery or raves haha. I'm also an ex-barista with a small love for coffee that's pursuing tech. Maybe slightly nerdy too in a hopefully good way :).
• Clean and can provide test results.
• I unfortunately can't host but I wouldn't mind getting a room or going with carplay. My windows are tinted.

I'd love to be straightforward (hence why I'm using reddit instead of dating apps) but I wouldn't mind going out for coffee to see how things go~. I didn't include much so feel free to ask me anything, I'd be happy to share pics early on in dms.

Good, because I've always wanted to fuck a student. 38M college professor who is HWP, brown hair, brown eyes, 5'11", and very dominant. Looking for a student who is 20+ and knows how to be a good for professor. Bonus points if you're a current student.

Looking for a man who likes consistent or casual naughty fun. No strings, just a fun satisfying connection. I actually want to be friends as well, and have conversations and do things other than sex. I like to go out hiking, try new foods or go to a bar. I also like staying in, watching a movie/TV/anime, or playin a game.

I find asian women to be the most attractive (but not in a weird fetish way). If you’re out there & looking for thick BWC, I’m here on the border of Fullerton & Anaheim. I have my own place & live alone. Would love to find a FWB but also open to ONS if that’s all you’re interested in. DM me & let’s exchange pics

Shouldn’t need to say this, women only! Men, please stop messaging me

Hey! New to this and just seeing what’s out there. Looking for a chill, fun connection—ideally FWB. Can travel.

About me: 6’0, East Asian, fit/average build. Big on physical touch and definitely a cuddler. Open-minded and always down to try new things (in and out of the bedroom).

Mix of nerdy + outdoorsy: Disney, HP, LOTR, Star Wars, late-night drives, spontaneous food runs, hikes, camping, and festivals with good music.

Open to a one-time meet, but ideally looking for something ongoing if we click. Prefer meeting casually in public to build comfort first.

Me:

Single, 32, East Asian, 6'0. 178 lbs, average build (proportionate). Clean, respectful, and communicative. Very easygoing.

I enjoy audible pleasure, pleasing and anything sensual, from kissing, cuddling, breast play to oral play. Open to some mild kinks, nothing hardcore, or degrading.

Slightly introverted/nerdy depending on topics. I like driving around vibing on music (mostly R&B and pop), checking out a new coffee spot after, chilling with games or movies/shows. Attempting to restore my workout routine.

I'm DDF, hygienic, and appreciate the same.

Ideal you:

26-40, <200 lbs, takes care of yourself, and respectful. Bonus if you're expressive and vocal.

I can't host but willing to drive and open to figuring something out together. Happy to exchange SFW pics once we're both comfortable.

DM a brief intro about yourself.

Are you one of those young ladies in SoCal who crushes on older men? Do you find some of your male professors irresistible? Maybe you secretly want to fuck your friend’s dad or that sexy and confident older manager. If you’re a local girl, why not let this older, naughty, and experienced dad show you how much better a guy my age is than those immature younger guys you know.

Let me tell you my kinks and I would love to hear yours. I know you’re dying to share them with an older man. We can meet after your college class gets out, or rendezvous after work, and if discretion is important that will be respected.

My stats: White, 6’, brown/gray hair. Professional, athletic, clean, nice looking and a very naughty DILF! Local only and please be at least 18 years old.

Hey all, happy Friday Night!

Hope everyone has been having a great start to their weekend so far and hope your week wasn’t too stressful or long like mine was :/

I am hoping to make some fun new connections, some spicy conversation, or possibly even irl fun. Whether the intentions are casual/fwb or something more, I’m open to going with the vibes and seeing where it takes us. Would love especially something ongoing so I can provide you stress relief throughout the year.

I love hiking, trying new foods/cafes, and soccer/sports in general as some of my regular interests. But the thing I love most is getting to know new people and especially hearing them gushing. about their interests! find it super cool learning about new things! Always down to find a pickleball and hike buddy as well :)

If you’re into tall, athletic, Wasians (I don’t mind riding the heated rivalry coat tails haha) or just like a good conversation), please free to reach out!

On the spicy side. I consider myself a switch, so open to a more pillow princess vibe or female lead/soft femdom vibe. I really enjoy female pleasure and making a woman happy, so hoping I can accomplish that and find a woman who would love my assistance :) But I wouldn’t mind leaning towards sub for the right woman.

One of my main kinks has always been female pleasure. love making a girl feel good and seeing how good I’m making her feel hehe. I’m interested in hopefully finding a woman who just wants to have me over and just focus on her wants/desires and bossing me around to tell me how to make her feel good!. This could be a one time thing OR maybe we could even turn it into a more regular time so I can make sure you’re properly cared for and giving you what you deserve :)

I’m 6’1 with brown hair, brown eyes, and a fairly athletic build. I’m open to chatting with people from anywhere around SoCal that is 20 or older. Looking forward to hearing from you and hope to see some of you in my dms! Would really love to catch some people locally in OC though ( as it’s always more fun when you’re close by :) but don’t mind driving to you if you can host :)