r/MarriedNSFW

Coming up with catchy titles is difficult, but maybe this one got you? 🤷‍♂️😉. I’m just here looking for that extra something after almost 20 years of marriage. I can’t really put a label on it, but if you know, you know! Like most here, I’m not looking to change my, or anyone else’s situation.

I have found great conversation a couple of times on here in the past, but lately it’s been a struggle. I really do seem to keep finding duds that just aren’t any fun…😏. You know, the type that reveals nothing, or just gives super short responses, and doesn’t reciprocate question-asking. I do know that I can’t handle boring, or super long periods of time between responses. I get that we all get busy, but if you’re not willing to put much effort into this, it obviously won’t work. We will just end up ghosting each other, and I’m getting tired of that. That’s such a waste of time for both people!

As for me, I’m a fun-loving and laid back guy willing to talk about pretty much everything. No topics are off-limits. I really am an open book. I lean conservative, so if that’s an issue, just keep scrolling. I’m adult enough to have civil conversations with anyone..regardless of their political views. I hope you are too. I’m also NOT easily offended, and neither should you be. Life’s too short to get offended by stupid shit!

I’m hoping to find a woman that values great communication, fun and flirty conversations, and will reciprocate the effort I know I’ll make. I’m not really picky about your situation. It’s more about just enjoying each other’s conversations, and virtual company for me. I do like a slow-ish burn that maybe turns into more down the road. It just shouldn’t be too slow. 😉

I’d consider myself conventionally attractive, and younger looking than my age. I’m 5’11”, blonde, blue eyes, and 195 Ibs. I’m in good shape for my age as well. No Dad Bod as they say. I’m hoping to find a woman of similar attractiveness. I’m not really into BBW, or excessively “curvy”. Don’t get me wrong, I love me some curves in the right places, but also like tone in the right places too. We all have a little extra junk in the trunk in our 40s, I get that, but I prefer someone who’s active and takes care of themself. HWP as they say!

If any of this resonates with you, please don’t be shy, reach out and let’s see what happens. I promise that I’m not boring, and I will provide you with great conversation, and a fun escape from your reality. What do you have to loose? Happy searching!

If this interests you, message me with your favorite color so I know you're real.

I'm a married dad just looking for someone real. I want a real friend with benefits. Let's talk about our day, vent, help eachother, all the things friends do, and then turn each other on like we just can't help ourselves. I want something longterm. I understand we can't talk every day and thats fine. I dont want to change your situation as I won't change mine. I just want to feel wanted again.

Anyways...

About you:

I'm not picky. Sure, we need to be attracted to eachother, but I don't really have a specific type I'm looking for. Just be available and message me first sometimes.

About me:

Like I said, I'm 38. I'm not really fit, but not heavy either. I have a small gut, but not overweight. Brown hair, brown eyes, goatee, glasses. The goatee and hair get long sometimes and then I get tired of it and shave it off. I also have tattoos.

Hope to hear from you!