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19 [F4F] NY Looking for a genuine long-term connection with a caring, dominant woman

About me:

Hi! :) I’m 19 and currently in New York. I’d describe myself as a pretty shy person at first, but once I’m comfortable I open up a lot and can be really affectionate and talkative. I enjoy things like watching shows, playing video games, and just relaxing with someone I feel safe around.

I really value emotional connection and trust. I like feeling cared for, comforted, and protected it means a lot to me to have someone who’s gentle but also knows how to take the lead. I can be a bit clingy in a soft way, and I enjoy reassurance and attention.

Personality-wise, I’m sweet, a little playful, and I do have a teasing side once I get comfortable. I like to joke around and keep things light sometimes, even if I’m more on the submissive side overall.

What I’m looking for:

I’m looking for a dominant woman who is caring, patient, and consistent. Someone who enjoys a dynamic where she can take charge but also be nurturing and supportive. I like being “babied” in a comforting way—like being reassured, checked on, and made to feel safe—but I also enjoy a bit of playful teasing back and forth.

Ideally, I want something that starts online and builds into a real, meaningful long-term relationship over time. Communication and mutual respect are really important to me.

If you’re someone who likes a mix of soft affection, leadership, and a little playful energy, we’ll probably get along well :)

PS- PLEASE don’t dm if you’re one of those doms who act overly cocky and think I will be waiting for you to text me back! I hate being ignored or always having to text first, if you know you are alike that don’t waste our time!!

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u/myariii — 2 hours ago

18f looking for a mama :D

Hiii u can call me bunni for now, I'm 18 and a afab little, I'm a masc and all but I hope its fine (mostly dressing wise anyways) When I’m not working, I’m usually often with friends on call, in the gym or sleeping. I love literature, history, music, and gaming allot. I’m naturally introverted but warm up quickly with the right energy.

What I’m looking for: I generally feel most comfortable with someone slightly older or more experienced, as emotional maturity and stability are important to me so please be older than 27. Prefferably afab too. I value the “boring” but meaningful stuff: hearing about your day, your plans, what excites you, and slowly building trust. We’re people first, not just profiles. As much as I like sexting and everything I really that sweet affectionate part of the dynamic, I want to get to know you, what hobbies you love, what kinda music you listen to, who pissed you off at work, what made you smile et cetera et cetera. Im also looking for something that is SFW (atleast mostly?). I know its hard to find that these days but i just wanna be cuddled and loved and feel small. I genuinely love to hangout and call for hours so so so much, just spending time together matters :D l'd say I'm pretty needy and clingy but I only let it show when I'm really comfortable or like someone a lot.I'm hoping to chat almost everyday, sending good morning and good night texts, spontaneous pictures throughout the day both sfw and nsfw but that doesn't have to be right away we can start sending when we get to know each other and feel more comfortable. I don't really want someone in an open relationship or someone who is poly since i tend to get jealous and all either. Oooh and I love strict mommys, I enjoy having any sorts of rules and structure ^^

I'm open to give out almost any social media of mine and verify, tho I'd like if you could do that too since waaay to many men linger on here and I'm fed up with it haha.

If l've peaked your interest I'd love to chat 💖

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u/cuterapesleeve — 8 hours ago

36 [F4A] #online #pnw #Seattle cheeky princess on the hunt for a creative, nurturing, strict Mommy who can mold me into their perfect girl

Hello! I'm so excited to have found this community!!

For years, I've built a life I'm proud of. But I fear I've neglected my wants and needs when it comes to kink. I played plenty in my early 20s, but now here I am in my 30s, ready to finally embrace my little side. And I'm looking for the right Mommy to guide me.

I want a dynamic that gives me something safe to come home to—a place with rules and routines that quiet my busy mind and let me just *be*. I'm not looking for TPE exactly, but something close to it with focused rules, routines, and control. I want to let go of my responsibilities, not my life. I want to curl up with my stuffed bear and a coloring book while wearing cozy socks and a cute plug. I want to be molded into your good little girl, desperate to please while still being my playful self.

Me: Average height, definitely on the squishy side, with plenty of anime tattoos. I love being called "good girl" but am still a well functioning adult with a great job. So I'm looking for something that's not-quite-TPE, but somewhat adjacent?

You: Someone who understands that submission isn't about giving up your life, but about enhancing it. Be strict, be a little sadistic, and be a little sweet and nurturing, too.

Kinks include, but definitely not limited to: Orgasm denial and control, clothing control, discreet public play, rules and routines. Some humiliation (things like body writing, toys under clothes, eating from a dog bowl).

Limits: scat, vomit, blood, body shaming, needles, permanent marks, and anything illegal. Pee is a hard limit online, but may be willing to soften if we transition to irl. I will be overly cautious about sharing identifiable photos until we establish trust.

If you're strict, patient, creative and ready to help an eager little finally flourish, please reach out. I have a great toy collection collecting dust, so I hope I can find you soon. <3

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u/Unusual_Jellyfish_97 — 11 hours ago

19 [F4F] #NM #Anywhere Aroace plus-sized Little looking for a deep and genuine long-term Mother and baby daughter relationship

About me:

Hello! :D I am a 19 year old autistic trans girl looking for a long-term mother-daughter relationship. I am a shy person but I open up and become very vulnerable with people I trust. :) I love to watch shows and play board games and video games, I also like cubing as a hobby. I am a quite tall and a quite chubby individual with stretch marks. I am mildly incontinent. I currently live near Albuquerque, New Mexico, but you don't have to live near me to contact me. I am living at home while attending college.

Littlespace:

My little age is 0-2. I wear baby clothes, and I have baby accessories like pacifiers. I wear diapers 24/7 and my goal is to have someone I can be little with nearly all the time. I am very very little, irl I want to be cuddled and coddled near constantly, with my speech being nonverbal or babbling and simple baby language. I also prefer being low verbal just in general too. I am happiest when I am in littlespace. I regress easier when I have a cg around. I want to be talked to in the same way any mother would talk to her baby, and that really helps me get in the littlespace. I love to use pacifiers. I want to be nurtured and treated like a baby near 24/7.

Relationship:

I am looking for a relationship that starts online and eventually becomes irl. I am seeking a Mom who acts as a caregiver and a guiding figure to me. I want to be glued to my Mom and be spoiled with love, and in return I stay as your baby who is obsessed with you and remains always at your side, doing most things with you, and giving you tons of love. I want to do lots of activities together, especially little activities, or gaming. Once we are irl, I want to be very physically affectionate and snuggling for hours per day. I crave touch a lot. irl I also want to have a routine, and would also love to have a Mom who picks my outfits for me.

I want the relationship to be very much a parent-child one. I don't want any sexual stuff. I only want a mom. Absolutely no NSFW please

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u/PolyCorp — 11 hours ago

24 [TF4F] #US #CA #Online Nerdy transfem little looking for her long-term earnest mommy

Hi, my name is Lizzy and I'm a 24 year old black transfem little who wants a genuine mommy who wants something more than just sexting. I myself am 5'9 and a huge nerd loving all things about video games but I also have an interest in vtubers, music, and ttrpgs. I have an English degree and I want to write novels for a living so I would love someone with a creative mind. I'm currently stuck in Alabama :( and I don't have access to HRT. On top of that I also don't want bottom surgery. I'm also looking to eventually move to Canada since the U.S is becoming increasingly hostile. Other than that I would like to eventually travel and visit other countries like Italy, Greece, and Japan to experience the culture and food. I am a bit of a foodie and would like to have someone who enjoys food too. And while my main love language is touch, I also love personal time and just being in each other's space even though this relationship will probably be online, we can video call or just text for hours to be with each other and get to know one another.

I'm looking for someone between the ages of 24-32 who is also nerdy because I would love to talk about our interests together. I would also prefer chubby or plus-size women because I find them beautiful and they would give the best hugs and cuddles. I prefer soft mommies too since I don't like to be a brat and I don't like strict mommies. I would want a mommy who treats this as a relationship instead of a short-term dynamic, I want to take things a bit slow and genuinely get to know each other first because I'm looking for a long-term mdlg relationship.

A few things about my little side is that I adore plushies and am a bit of a low-energy little who would just want to vibe and get baby-talked to instead of being hyperactive. As said before I don't like to be a brat, and I'm already a bit of an apologetic person when I'm big so I don't like to cause trouble when I'm little. For mommies who like rules I would ask that you keep the rules a bit light, things like daily check-ins and making sure I've eaten or drank water are rules that I'm more than ok with. If things go well you'll find out that I can be a bit clingy and I hope you like clingy because I am very fine with clingy mommies. Despite all of this because of ghosters, I never really had a mommy who cares and has stuck around for more than a month, but I have done my best to find the silver lining in those ghostings and figured out what I want in a mommy. I would also like verification soon after we meet, at least a picture of each other after a week, or I'll just assume you didn't read this part and stop talking.

I have other kinks too all of which can be talked about and discussed with my only limits being pain and degradation. The most important thing to me when it comes to kinks however is consent and making sure that my mommy is also ok with how things are going. Some of my kinks include praise (I love being called a good girl), being breastfed, giving body worship, feet, and armpits.

If you read everything and are still intrested don't hesitate to DM me, and for the ghosters out there, don't bother.

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u/buddycopronin — 22 hours ago
Week