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Tragic reality of 'Sugar arrangement '
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Tragic reality of 'Sugar arrangement '

Had a conversation with a 'sugar baby'.

She said she wants to meet and check if we vibe. Offered to take her for dinner or coffee and she demanded 12k as allowance for a casual meeting to check the vibe and discuss further expectations for the arrangement.

Why is this becoming a reality?

You don't show up to a job interview and expect the interviewer to pay you just for showing up.

Life doesn't work that way. You claim that emotional connection and intimacy is important to you and you cheapen yourself by acting like a freeloader. Why?

It's not about the money. Most people send more going out for dinner with friends/colleagues. It's about the mindset. You claim that you desire connection but your actions demonstrate that you are here to earn easy money.

Added a screenshot of the chat. Judge for yourself. I know my grammar is shit. But in my defence i was furious.

u/ab_1889 — 14 hours ago
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Some idiot shared my TG deets!

Hey everyone, it’s lislismeme!

Someone who rejected me for personal feud shared my TG here on the group and I started receiving random msgs, calls, dick picks and literal rape threats! Like fr!

For SDs who were on talking terms with me! Hope you see this! I have taken SS of your username and I’ll be reactivating my another Telegram account from another Number and user ID and we connect back. If any one of you is thinking that I have ghosted you or scammed you. Please wait for me. 😭

It has been an horrible experience in the last two days for receiving random text of people treating me like a sl*t! :(

I had no option but to delete it! And literally lost a lot of details.

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u/female_snape — 1 day ago

37M genuine SD looking for a genuine SB

Hi genuine SBs,

I am a genuine SD, 37M, a working professional, seeking for a genuine SB, preferably 30+.

I am seeking for a soulful connection, beyond NSFW.

I will respect you, your expectations, your time, space and privacy, and willing to support you financially on a weekly basis. To begin with I would offer allowance through Amazon GC.

If you are a genuine SB, possibly 30+, who can verify and seek a soulful connection and not just transactional service, please DM me. I am willing to know your expectations.

You can guarantee support and respect from me 💯.

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u/Sensitive-Cookie-345 — 17 hours ago

Saw a scam alert post - setup a process

@admin

This community is growing and we can almost never trust the other person in the initial stage.

Sugar first is unfair for SD and later is unfair for SB.

So the only way to have a better help for everyone is to TAKE SCREENSHOTS of the full chat WHENEVER YOU PAY.

If you get blocked, then you have the payment as proof and the reddit chat log in which they will mention their tg.

Make sure that the SB mentions her tg in the reddit chat so that we can see that it's the same id in tg...of the SB that blocked you.

Then posting them here, is probably the best that we can do to help out.

If I'm missing anything or if any better solution... Just put it in.

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u/LeatherWest7640 — 1 day ago
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Looking for SB, Bangalore

I had posted here earlier and got a few responses, but nothing really aligned. So trying again with a bit more clarity. My intent is still the same.

About me, I’m a working professional based in Bangalore. Fairly fit, well-groomed, and usually told I don’t look my age. I’m easygoing, a bit of an introvert, and prefer things to feel natural and drama-free. I enjoy good conversations, light humor, and taking things at a comfortable pace. I don’t smoke, drink socially.

What I’m looking for is a genuine, mutually beneficial connection with someone who is fit, well-groomed, and confident. Petite is a plus. Someone educated, preferably working or independent, and based in Bangalore. Personality matters a lot to me. Open-minded, a bit sassy, emotionally sorted, and easy to get along with. If you can handle an introvert well, that’s a big plus.

I’m looking for something real, not something that stays virtual. Ideally we meet 3 to 4 times a month and stay in touch casually in between. I respect personal space and won’t interfere in your life, and I expect the same in return. Mutual respect, honesty, discretion, and a no-drama vibe matter a lot.

Open to occasional travel together if we both are comfortable. I also like taking pictures during trips, nothing explicit, just normal moments.

On support, I’m open to a monthly arrangement in the 60 to 80k range for the right match. I don’t rush into things though. I prefer we take a little time initially to meet, talk, and get comfortable. No expectations from either side during that phase. Once there is trust and clarity, we can move forward.

Other details about payment conditions and verification will be shared over DM when we first connect.

I can be selective, not just because of the amount, but because the right vibe matters more to me.

If this feels like something you’d be comfortable with, feel free to DM with a bit about yourself.

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u/Antique_Help5595 — 14 hours ago

Seeking Sugar Dad, Mumbai (SFW?)

25F, Mumbai, new to this space so I prefer taking things at a comfortable pace rather than going for NSFW arena right away. I enjoy genuine conversations, flirting, sharing moments of our day, and building a vibe first. More emotional connection before anything else.

Note: I have never done NSFW before.

I'm open to a virtual arrangement for the first week, and if things feel right, we can move towards going to cute dates in real life.

What I can offer is consistency, attention, and a proper girlfriend experience. I'll hype you up, listen to you, flirt with you, send you little updates, photos, voice notes, and just be someone you actually look forward to talking to. We can also call if you are comfortable. I'm expressive and very affectionate.

I also value respect and clear communication. I don't want to waste your time, so being upfront, I expect something around 5k weekly depending on the arrangement and effort from both sides.

If this isn't your thing, that's completely okay, just scroll past. No judgement needed. But it's Reddit so judge all you want, it is cool whatever.

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u/Abhisheksharma04_ — 2 days ago

Yesterday night i verified a SB..she's literally a goddess...don't ask for her id..I won't give..and she is not willing to post here for now... but dude I'll be jealous of that SD with whom she matches 🐾..I know she's seeing this post 😅

u/Abhisheksharma04_ — 5 days ago