r/GayLouisianaHookups1

Looking to suck dick, get sucked eat ass & i am a Top if it goes there. However im open to alot. So ask. Looking in Monroe area.

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​I’m a 39-year-old FTM trans man (5’8”, average build) looking for consistent, intentional connections. I’m happily married, but we practice strict parallel poly—we date separately and do not do threesomes.

​Who I’m Into:

​Men (25–49): Rugged country vibe (flannels, tattoos, caps). Short, trimmed beards or goatees (no grey, please). Average to athletic builds..

​The Vibe: I need daily consistent communication and digital banter. I want someone who puts effort into planning dates and spending quality time together.

​About Me & My Transition:

I’m 100% upfront: I was born female and have transitioned. I’m on weekly T-shots and had top surgery. I still have the pussy I was born with and I’m keeping it. You must be totally cool with this. Note: I don’t drive, so that’s something to know upfront for planning.

​Home Life & Boundaries:

I live with my wife, our homeschooling teenage daughter, and our pets.

​Life Balance: No one is moving in, getting married to me, or doing sleepovers.

​Privacy: My wife and I don’t flaunt our outside relationships in front of each other. We have a hard boundary about not seeing or hearing each other being intimate with our partners.

​Respect: I expect mutual respect for everyone’s time, space, and existing relationships.

​The Essentials:

​Demisexual: I need a real bond first. Sex only happens once we are officially dating. No FWBs or hookups.

​Autonomy: I date multiple people, and you’re free to date or hook up with others—just keep the communication open.

​Interests: Horror movies (favorite!), WWE, music for every mood, and at-home fitness.

​Next Steps:

If we vibe, I’ll eventually ask for a non-nude selfie and the basics (age, location, job, hobbies). I just want to ensure we’re both here for the right reasons.

​I’m chill, a little sarcastic, and loyal once we bond. If you’re a rugged guy or a stem/fem woman who shows up, let's chat. Tell me about yourself and why you're reaching out.