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Hi there,

I have two fwb’s who are a Dom couple. a few weeks ago was my first time staying overnight.

I was woken up by them after sleeping in (it was a big night for me ah) and I gave them both head until they finished. They were already fully awake when I woke up.

They mentioned after that next time I should wake them up with head rather than them waking me up. I want to do a good job for them.

I have given morning head to one man before but want to know how I should go about serving two Doms early in the morning.

Would it be better to start on just one and help him wake up or wake them both up at the same time and split the time waking them up? Any other advice is appreciated from both Doms and subs

I (sub) been thinking doing a wresting scene with my dom, but I'm not entirely sure how it would work ou in a safe and fun manner.

I'm usually a really well behaved and submissive and maybe even a bit formal/uptight sometimes, I have tried the brat act a couple times and did not like it. But I do like to physically struggle and the idea of scene with a bit of power struggle also seems fun (before getting bested and going back to submission, of course)

But at the same time I dont want to do a scripted mock fight.

In a way I just want to roll around in the ground and play around before "being put back on my place".

Does anyone have experience with these kind of scenes/scenarios? Specially concerning safety and precautions

I give real discipline spankings to a few students and young professionals in the NYC area. Many of them had been looking for this unsuccessfully before finding me, so it seems that the number of people who do this kind of thing is actually very low. Has anyone else here been on either side of an arrangement like this?

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