r/ExtortionKink

Mtf4A looking to be controlled

45yo sub sissy looking to be blackmailed, forced fem, forced hrt, forced prostitution, forced gay etc located in Australia and willing to hand over all details. I have lots of outfits, estrogen, chastity etc and live alone

I’m not out so this is my secret can supply info and pics as per request.

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u/Intelligent-Shoe6893 — 4 hours ago

26 [F4] who better to turn you into a sissy than me

I’m looking to drain some weak little betas and make them fill my wallet. Message me if you dare. I’ve been in your shoes. So I know what you crave. I’m hot. I can make you everything you’ve always wanted to be.

I like to take men and blackmail them into being my bitch. I will break you down and push you into becoming my perfect toy. I will disrespect you just to fuel my own desire.

All men are welcome of course, I will either ruin your relationship or ruin your chances of getting into a relationship. I will do this by degrading you, removing your masculinity and making you a sissy beta that no girl will ever want.

If this sounds hot to you, then you were born to be my toy, made to be play thing.

I am a findom and that will be a part of the play, do not message me if you aren’t into findom. Findom is a kink, I enjoy draining people and I want subs that actively enjoy sending.

You will enjoy your blackmail. You will send like good girls.

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u/Suitable-Sun5344 — 1 hour ago

19 m4F ive never tried this stuff before and im a shy person but im willing to go all out this one time anyone want to use me?

Im really shy 19 have some interesting things you could probably use also u might have to guid me a little im very new to this but i work full time and im willing to be pushed im not to sure what else to say but i loved being told what to do and I haven’t relapsed in over 3 months so im a pretty easy target probably

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u/Some-Ad7276 — 5 hours ago

35 [M4A] Master for slave

I lead. I control. I expect obedience.

Seeking cashfags who crave structure, discipline, and clear authority.

Know your place, respect the dynamic, and be ready to serve.

Cashapp prefered. Throne available.

Prefer long term. Will do drains.

Subs looking to pay for content keep moving.

You are for my pleasure not the other way around.

Earn my attention—send asl, limits, and budget.

Currently have multiple subs in multiple dynamics.

Adopt a bill

Pay for access

Finsub Rehab

Silent sends

Goal monitoring

Serious subs only.

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u/Cool-Albatross-3320 — 6 hours ago

35 [M4F] Ruin my marriage

I want you to destroy my marriage. I’m not happy and I continually search for dommes online, preferring secrecy and a relationship over a screen than intimacy with my actual wife. I deserve to have my life fucked up beyond measure.

I want you to act like you’re my friend, like you understand me and that I’m not a terrible person who has cheated both online and in person time and time again. I want you to get information from me.

Then snap the door shut and show me how fucked I am.

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u/ThreeSir5 — 5 hours ago

25[F4M] Forced Feminization and Blackmail

I know what you truly desire, the rush that is stepping out of your vanilla crafted character and showing your true self. Don’t be shy, reveal your true self to me. I will accept every part of you, even the part that wears their partners clothes and underwear when they’re not home.

I’ll have you posing in front of your phone’s camera like the greedy slut that you are. Every sort of position and I’ll save them just in case. You’ll have to pay me to keep your secret and that’s when the real fun begins.

There’s no going back once I have you in my grasp, and should you try to leave I’ll open the Pandora’s box that is your embarrassing little secret 😘

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u/LordexLavender — 19 hours ago

19 [M4A] I will change your life and I will break you, I will rebuild you as my obedient slave who is ready to do everything so that I do not destroy your life completely.

I will collect data from you, quickly, a lot, you will not even have time to notice how you will be completely in my power, you will be excited, then you will regret that you sent all this, but does it matter? After you stop being excited, you will become scared, but there will no longer be a chance to escape.

You will have to do everything I say, I will humiliate you, change your lifestyle, of course, dry out your wallet, you will be scared, you will be obedient, you will like it. Imagine being completely under my control, with no way to escape without consequences, doing whatever I say, become just my obedient slave and enjoy every humiliating task and every time you pay me, because I will take all your money, I will force you to sell everything you have for my pleasure, I will break you in a way you cannot even imagine, but you will fall in love with it, you will enjoy being in slavery no less than I will enjoy being your master.

Well, of course, I think you know what will happen if you think about disobeying me, I will send all your data to everyone you know, you will become a real disgrace with whom even your own family won't want to communicate, they will abandon you, you will be completely forgotten, that will be the price of your disobedience.

And you know what? Maybe I'll just throw you away after I break you, you'll be a pauper, without a shred of self-respect or rebelliousness, a perfect slave for me, and after all that, I'll just throw you away like a broken thing, and you will beg me to remain your master, you will be ready to do anything just to be my slave for at least a little longer. And you know, if you're a good slave for me, I won't send your details to your family. You can continue to contact them and they won't find out anything, not in the family, not at work, not anywhere, you will be able to continue to live a normal life, although in your soul you will forever remain my broken slave, and you will come back to me for more, offering yourself and your money so that I can give you more.

Doesn't this sound like a dream to you? Think about it, and give free rein to the desires you try so hard to hide, open up to me, and let me break you. 💲

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u/Suspicious-Tiger-751 — 8 hours ago

29 [M4F] SPH/ blackmail

Looking to find someone who genuinely enjoys using my embarassing sissy pics to make me do tasks. #SPH #chastity #blackmail #sissytasks #smallpenishumiliation - add me in my vanilla socials to up the ante 😏 ask me anything, use everything, I want to be your sissy slave. Real consequences are a must, I need to be worried about not following through

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u/subRileyy — 18 hours ago

34 [M4F] Looking for the smart elegant woman in public but depraved in the bedroom

You are someone who projects an image to the public as smart. driven, career orientated and confident in your professional or academic life. You have created and built this image which you are proud of but in the bedroom you want to be used, manipulated and degraded as a toy.

I'm looking for the one who knows this is going against what you stand for but you want to be objectified and used because it's what you crave and want to be belittled. If you are someone who is married or in a relationship even better because this is something you should not be doing but you can't help yourself and want the thrill of having your life in my hands. I want to use you slowly and have you as my sub financially and in videos/pics for exposure. You will reach a point you crave to be put in a situation that is risky but the thrill and chase gets you off

Based in London and looking for someone in person or online. You must be comfortable sharing pics/vids and in good shape

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u/KoreanDom06 — 11 hours ago

for young 18–20 year olds here

I see a lot of 18-year-old boys and girls in my DMs.

And oh boy… the enthusiasm is there. You want to dive headfirst into this kinky rabbit hole.

BUT

I rarely take you seriously.

Want to know

WHY?

Because what you’re chasing blackmail, extortion dynamic this isn’t a normal kink space. It’s intense, risky, and that’s exactly why it feels exciting to you.

But you’re going all in without understanding what that actually means.

So here’s your reality check:

Right now your hormones are high, your curiosity is high, and you feel ready to push limits.

But what happens after the first rush?

You’ll want more.

More intensity.

More risk.

More extreme situations.

And then what?

Where do you go when what excited you once doesn’t hit the same anymore?

I’m telling you this because I’ve talked to enough of you to see the pattern.

Most of you don’t actually need something this extreme.

If you’re honest with yourself, what you’re really looking for is a dominant woman. Someone to guide you, control the dynamic, give you that psychological edge.

You don’t need to hand over personal information.

You don’t need to put yourself in a position where you lose control completely.

That’s not power. That’s recklessness.

Don’t climb this ladder so fast.

Because once you start chasing deeper and darker extremes, it’s very hard to come back down.

Think before you jump.

I’m open to answering questions in the comments.

And you, yeah, you who are already deep in this rabbit hole tell me if I’m wrong.

tell me if this isn’t what you’ve also noticed.

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u/mistress_jarin — 18 hours ago

24 F4A making you regret your choices AND still want to stay here is the game I play 😏

Yes, I will reassure you that you will be fine. Yes, I will convince you that it is for a better reason, that I deserve it more. Yes, you will fall for it. Yes, you will beg to leave and for me to delete every.single. thing.

And yet, you'll find your way back after months because you know I'm the best thing you have ever had.

I'm capable of being so realistic that you will not know wether I'm telling the truth or not. I love manipulating my little pets. I love when they willingly fall in the trap.

And I want a new toy, one that knows what is expected of him. Read my pinned, and then, if you are still feeling brave, step forward 😈

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u/zukaki1 — 15 hours ago

24 [F4M] Looking for new victim! 🖤

Hello!! I’m 24, been into this kink for years now and looking for someone new to play with! My kinks include Blackmail, TPE, CEI, JOI, tease and denial, humiliation and degrading, just to name a few! Feel free to reach out and we can have a chat, discuss kinks and limits, etc! (Tribute will be asked for!) See you soon! 💗🖤

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u/NoMercyxox — 1 day ago

22 y [M4F]

I’m 22 years old looking for a dom to use, own, abuse, ruin and blackmail me. I’ll send my information, ids, videos, and nudes and nudes with ids. Please ruin and own me and make me completely yours. Message me if you are interested in owning, using, ruining, abusing and blackmailing me into being your slave

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u/Tonytop8 — 20 hours ago

18 [M4F] College kid wondering if anyone would be willing to have a short term session with me

Looking for a short femdom/blackmail session where you force me to do a couple tasks(or even punishments just to be cruel) of your choosing and force me to provide proof to you. Extremely into femdom domination, exposure, psychological control, fear play, and the idea of being at your mercy. One of my first times with blackmail and extra scared…so anonymity is a must—no face, no real name, no identifying info. This is intended as a one-time session only. If you love playing cruel but consensual mind tricks and want to explore a short but intense scene, message me. :)

Budget: $30

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u/Any-Ad-1243 — 20 hours ago

Let me ruin you

Im really craving a man to take out all my anger and frustration on. I want to ruin your life, humiliate you, and drain your wallet at the same time. Do you crave abuse? Are you willing to put yourself through hell so that I can be spoiled? Jump straight into the deep end by sending me a dm. Tributes are required, so dont even try if you are too broke for my time. Send me a dm with your hard limits to begin..

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u/Dismal-Amphibian7017 — 23 hours ago

18 [TM4A] Your new genderplay master

I want a new pet to shape to my will.

I want to force a man to feminize "him"self for me or a woman to masculinize "her"self for me (nonbinary people get dealer's choice).

You try it a couple of times. It's fun. You wonder what could possibly go wrong. You trust me.

And then the demands start. I start wanting money from you. And I'll tell everyone what you've been doing for me if you don't pay up and keep changing yourself for me.

You must give me your budget and hard limits. My hard limits are any toilet stuff and ageplay.

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u/KittenStamp — 1 day ago

You are already addicted, let me feed your addiction while you question.. is this all a fantasy?

I love gathering information. Let me ask you about your job, where you’re from, your name… You think it’s a simple conversation and then all of a sudden I found your Facebook, or I was able to Google image your office building… Come role-play with me while I play dumb as a first time blackmailer and you fall victim trusting my innocence..

Bonus points if your wife is laying in bed next to you..

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u/melidi84 — 21 hours ago

28[M4F] Blackmail- This could be your time

You've been thinking about it. What used to come to mind occasionally is now there almost every day, at any moment.

You see a post about blackmail, and you open it immediately... you can't avoid it. Every time you see one, you think:

>!What would it be like if...!<

>!What would it feel like...!<

What about being at someone's mercy...

The truth is, you're already feeling it. Your body reacts on its own when you think about it, and it's not going away. I'm here to tell you to accept that it's part of you now- and that there's nothing wrong with exploring these curiosities, as long as it's done safely and with consent. If it were so easy to push out of your mind, you wouldn't already be here.

With me, you can expect structure. On one side, you'll be trained to be a good girl; on the other, to be the perfect toy.

I'll make sure you accomplish your goals (go to the gym, lose weight, study more), because I find satisfaction in seeing you do well... but don't get me wrong, no one here is a saint, including me.

You want to know what it would feel like-and we both know it. Let's talk more privately about the terms (yours and mine).

So when you send me a message, tell me your age and a little about yourself.

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[F4A] 18 Years old. got you by the balls now :p

Heyyy loser :3

yeah it’s me, Dani. the alt girl you’ve been stalking for weeks. just turned 18. you really thought i wouldn’t notice you saving all my pics and jerking off in the dark? cute.

i’ve got your shit now. your real name, where you work, your wife’s facebook, even those nasty search terms you delete right after. screenshots, everything. one click and your whole boring little life explodes.

so here’s the deal, babe. you’re gonna send me $200 tonight, right now. send it to my PayPal in bio. call it a tribute if it makes your dick twitch harder. do it quick and i’ll keep quiet for another week… maybe even send you a voice note in my fishnets telling you what a pathetic paypig you are.

don’t? cool. i’ll start dropping stuff. first to your wife, then your boss, then whoever else i feel like. and yeah, i actually get wet knowing you’re panicking and pulling money out just because i said so.

clock’s ticking, simp. send it and tell me “thank you Dani” so i know you’re properly broken already.

don’t keep me waiting 💋

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u/Logical_Sea_6956 — 1 day ago

25 [F4M] Feminization and findom blackmail

Let me dress you up like a doll and make you dance for me. Every picture and video you send pushes you further past the point of return. Soon you’ll find yourself at my mercy and that comes at a hefty price.

I hope you learn to enjoy the sensation of what a stiff wig and cheap lingerie feels like. You better look on YouTube for some dance moves😘 this is going to be quite the show.

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u/LordexLavender — 23 hours ago