r/DirtyChatPals

[30F4A] Looking for a long term chat about NSFW linkings, kinks and just share experiences

about myself: I am 30, female, a little chubby. on my NSFW side I enjoy fantasy toys a lot, I have a kink for big toys and you could say I am a size queen. I enjoy anal as well and found a liking in strap on harness and similar.

Besides that I am open to experimenting a lot, so I just take one rope play.

I also like to RP, if interested I like to play futa/f mostly submissive as I have enough of only dominant play.

other kinks (just a listing): asian, cum, bukkake, bbc, edging, gloryhole and a lot more.

Besides NSFW I am enjoying gaming, a few sports and I am definitely nerdy. so sorry if I am direct.

all over 21+ please, so please let me know your age when you write me

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u/sara_sis — 2 hours ago

[M4A] bi top with a bwc looking for someone fun to play with

Hey there thanks for looking at my post. My name is Alex I'm 34 bi Dom top and I am a very horny guy who can never seem to get enough. if you are a plus size woman, fem, bottom, or anything in between please don't be shy I'd love to talk with you and see what makes you tick. If you want to just goon or send porn or even RP it is all sexy to me. I'm so damn hungry for more and more. If this sounds like you and you can help a horny guys like me please don't hesitate to message me and say all you want you won't get

Don't be shy and come

chat and keep me hard

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u/Grand-Connection5119 — 20 minutes ago

31[M4F] Down Horrendous

Hey everyone, I have no idea what's gotten into me, but this past week I've been probably the horniest I've been in a decade. So that's what brings me to you beautiful people, some afternoon delight. I'm down to chat, feed you porn, roleplay, or literally whatever you want. Beggars can't be choosers. Come with your worst in my DM's. Hope to see some responses soon!

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u/Hot_Memory_9476 — 24 minutes ago

37 [M4F] Looking for a sporty girl

I’m obsessed with athletic girls. My whole life I’ve been drawn to sporty girls. Basketball, soccer, you name it. Women that are strong and confident are extremely sexy. Also in my experience they’re some of the kinkiest. If you’re an athletic woman send me a chat request. I’d love to talk about how strong you are.

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u/Anybody_120 — 27 minutes ago

32[M4F] I’m sure your husband won’t mind..

Hi there! I’m sure your husband wouldn’t mind that we’re chatting.. right? He’s too busy anyway! Don’t you miss the attention? When your pussy would be worshipped at all hours of the day? When you were the most important priority?

If he does mind, he’ll never know the difference anyway. If you’re single, you deserve the same attention too 😈

About me: 6ft tall, fit and athletic, lots of tattoos, lots of kinks and always interested in learning about yours ❤️

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u/PM_ME_UR_FETISHES — 28 minutes ago

27 [F4M] small & medium-small penis appreciation post

Disclaimer: I am not interested in size humiliation. I am not a dominatrix. I also do not have a fetish for small penises. I just sort of like them, I guess, in the same way that you might appreciate small breasts.

I have one request, before you read on. If you write to me, please be respectful and polite. I will not answer rude messages, and I will not open unsolicited pictures. Thank you.

To the point...

I think it's a shame that modest sizes are so underrepresented. They come up in very specific contexts only. As jokes, as objects in humiliation/feminization content, as insults, et cetera. Some people enjoy that, which is fine, but not everyone likes it when their body is degraded.

That said—I am not writing this post out of sympathy. I am simply in the mood for something 4" or less. If you have one, we can talk. (We don't even have to talk about size, really. Not unless you want to. We can just talk about you and yours, your size being incidental, and you can be confident and assured that I like it. If you want to have an explicit conversation about size, that's OK too. I don't mind.)

That is all.

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u/Charizard_IRL — 12 hours ago

22 [F4M] Hi, inferior Asian girl hopes to be dominated, humiliated, made to serve, and / or treated meanly

Hello. My title says the gist of it 😅. I’m very open minded. I want to write a more detailed post soon, but like I said I am open to different kind of scenarios related to title or kinks below. You can learn more about me and the kinds of things I get helplessly and stupidly turned on by from my previous posts or by messaging me.

I am mainly interested in role playing for the time being.

A few kinks (in no particular order):

Raceplay, cnc, extreme domination, bondage, humiliation, deepthroating, extreme impact play, domination / submission, role switching, objectification, tender heartwarming moments, compassion and love, cruelty and mean-ness, enslavement…

I will include a few roleplay ideas I came up with before. We don’t have to follow these but it may give you an idea of the kind of thing I’m sort of into. (Actually I’d love if you have other ideas too):

  1. ⁠You put out a personal ad for an Asian house servant. I find it weird that the ad specifies Asian… but I message and schedule an interview anyway.

  2. ⁠We go on a date, maybe through an app. I seem to be a very professional and competent young woman. Yet you realize early on that you can sense a hidden desperation to impress and please you, a certain insecurity. You decide to take advantage of this, seeing how far you can go with me and what I’ll go along with. Maybe you invite me back to your house instead of a restaurant, and even though I know it’s inappropriate and maybe insulting to go to a stranger’s house I just met without a real date, I find my self unable to say no to the offer.

  3. ⁠I’m your mail-order bride. Today is the first day that I arrive at our new home. (Think trad wife, TTPE type things.

  4. ⁠Anything you want to try!

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u/Sweet-Memory-3399 — 3 hours ago

23 [F4M] looking for long term chats

hi there :) I'm looking for someone to build a connection with. I feel like I am missing being devoted to someone, so I'm looking for someone who wants that kind of passionate chemistry. I need someone with enough time for me, who likes to give attention and likes to be needed and wanted. read my other posts for more context of things i like and what I'm looking for. voice calls are also important to me. I'm in australia so a similar time zone would be better but I don't mind anything, as long as our connection and chemistry is there.

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u/zoniza — 5 hours ago

[F4F] Waking up with cum inside me.

Brevity is the soul of wit. Maybe that's why I'm keeping this short. At this point, all I can think about is the last time my husband fucked me in my sleep. And the times I've woken him up with sex or head. Pretty basic but I wanna chat with other girls on this topic. Guys maybe next time.

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u/HelpfulCamp7546 — 1 hour ago

37 [m4f] what’s your fantasy that you haven’t acted on?

I would love to have some fun chats today about fantasies that you have never acted on. Maybe it’s something that’s a little too far out there, maybe it’s someone too close, anything! I am a non-judgmental Reddit friend, here to help you explore the dirty parts of your brain!

I’m open to short or long-term convos, so send me a chat and let’s have some fun with it!

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u/throwawayedrel — 1 hour ago

27 [M4A] I watched a hung white guy fuck my Asian girlfriend

im in an open relationship with my asian girlfriend. it was her idea to open it, and she's been hooking up with a lot of guys, white guys specifically. she prefers white guys more than any other race, even though im asian like her, and i've always known that. recently shes been wanting to spice things up and wanted to have a threesome. we had a card game bet and if i win, its with another girl, and if she wins its win another guy. she ended up winning, and one of the guys shes been regularly hooking up with agreed to join us. he came over to our place the next day. i met him for the first time, very handsome, tall, fit, white guy. we got into it, and long story short, it was too much for me and i ended up cumming super early and fast. they just kept going and i sat there and watched everything they did in front of me, like a cuck. he fucked her so good and she was all over him. he's way bigger than me too. ive never seen her like this with me. i still cant believe it happened and cant stop thinking about it. i wanna talk about everything with someone

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u/turtgramchy — 2 hours ago

44 [M4F] Wives, what have you done that no one knows about?

Hello ringed ones, I enjoy talking to married women about the things they've done or do - that no one knows about. Are you having an affair? Are you single on the road? Are you on here getting off with people you shouldn't be? There are many things you ladies do and get away with, so let's chat about that. Introduce yourself first, and we'll get along great.

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u/YourNextChatRequest — 2 hours ago

35 [M4A] Who’s seen you or your partner naked?

Looking to chat with people that might have seen or been seen by other friends. Have you flashed some friends at party? Maybe didn’t realize someone was over getting out of the shower? Had a wardrobe malfunction?

I prefer to chat with people 30+. O Lu interested in hearing stories that took place in adulthood.

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u/zerowing0100 — 2 hours ago

[M4F] 29 – Latex, bondage, humiliation and being completely transformed

Hi Reddit,

29M from the UK here. I’m drawn to latex, bondage, and the psychological side of control — the kind where you slowly slip into something else entirely.

I really enjoy the idea of transformation — physically, mentally, and emotionally. That feeling of being reshaped, restricted, and guided until you’re stripped of your identity and turned into nothing but a rubber doll

I’m a switch, so I appreciate both sides of the dynamic. Sometimes I like to take control and build that tension, other times I prefer to give that up completely and just exist within whatever dynamic is built. That back-and-forth, the power shifts, the teasing and resistance — that’s where it really gets interesting.

One of favourite fantasy scenarios if transforming someone into a rubber, putting them in bondage with a gag and putting them to use then later they would get payback by transforming me into a rubber doll and having their way with me. Could include chastity and pegging as well.

I’m also open to exploring things like pet play, full-body encapsulation, and immersive scenarios — especially anything involving latex or rubber.

I’m especially into:

  • latex/rubber (from subtle to full encapsulation)
  • bondage and restriction especially gags
  • psychological play (control, identity, transformation)
  • pet play or objectification dynamics

Ideally, you like:

  • Transformation and humiliation
  • Detailed fantasy scenarios
  • are open to exploring dynamics, not just rushing

If that sounds like your kind of thing let's chat about fantasies!

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u/Latexia322 — 32 minutes ago

38 [M4F] Cumplay

Do you love being covered? Filled? Swallowing a big creamy load and showing off? Have you ever had multiple guys coat you or fantasized about it? Gone out in public with a bit dripping down your chin?

I’m looking to have a kinky chat with women who love and crave a thick load and really get turned on about it. Would love to talk about experiences, fantasies, and desires.

A few other kinks I’m into are lingerie (whether lace matching bra and thong, a corset, something strappy, our just stockings and a garter belt), group sex, andbondage. I'm also into aggressive sex and anal. I really love hearing about other kinks, as well as sharing my own experiences and fantasies.

Let's chat, roleplay, and have some fun together.

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u/j_ingras — 32 minutes ago

[F4A] Sharing my opinions with inexperienced people

Hi, F22 here looking to share my opinions and experiences in a completely honest way. If you do not have a lot of real life experiences, you easily get a distorted view on sex from hanging out on these corners of Reddit. So I'll try to answer any questions you have honestly and realistically. Keep in mind, I'm only 1 person, opinions differ so don't take this as the gospel.

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u/nowayhomer — 2 hours ago

22[M4F] recently discovered my greed for older women's validation and attention.

I never really paid attention to this feeling that much but scrolling through reddit and reading stories turned me on and made me realise how much I find older women (possibly mothers) who still have a fun and active sex life. just the sheer thought of how much experience they carry and how mature and forgiving they can be. the thought of pleasuring someone like that, being at her service.

I regularly crave a connection thats comforting, sensual, passionate and which brings me and my partner calm. I imagine us cuddling and us holding each other so tightly that we both feel each other's warmth.

I'd honestly love to chat about it, I'm feeling kinda low and would love some company

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u/AMG1206 — 33 minutes ago

[m4f] A partner, a confidant?

I used to have someone I'd call a "hotfriend" Sort of like a hot wife situation but we were just friends and it went both ways. She'd brag about her life/sex life and I'd do the same. Encourage each other, swap porn and the life. Anyway she ended up dating someone really serious and put an end to it and I miss it. I'm looking for someone who's interested in something like that.

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u/WhereAllTheBeesAt — 34 minutes ago

42 [M4A] Idolizing the bull and his cock

It’s been an education being a cuck. I never realized how amazing sex could be for my wife until I saw her with our first bull. I also never realized how much she would want sex. I just assumed it was normal for her to refuse sex and maybe only want to fuck once a month at most. Now that she has a steady bull and they fuck at least once a week but often more, I’m realizing how much sex with a real man changes things for her. I’ve come to idolize our bull and his beautiful cock. I consider myself straight but ever since they made me pussy free I am finding myself fantasizing about sucking his cock and being fucked by him. Is this a common response?

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u/Outrageous_Bit7266 — 2 hours ago

33M4M Top is looking for some fun! (femboy, trans or bottom)

Hello there! I hope you are doing great! I am doing well just "a little horny" lol I would love to release the tension you know. I am into feminine people. I love seeing their body. Gets me excited really. My favorite positions are doing it against the wall as we both are standing me hugging you from behind and other one is when I am your big spoon and gently kissing your neck as I make you feel how hard I am ;) Not good at role playing but I am good at conversation. Hope to hear from you!

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u/Valuable-Matter-4669 — 38 minutes ago
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