r/DesiMarriedButLooking

You and I are here because clearly we are not happy in our married lives and feel pretty much stuck in a lifeless one.

Maybe you are like me....it used to be good...but then your SO’s priorities changed and now you are just a logistical partner.

I am 42 and based in Atlanta, Georgia (ATL, GA). I’m just looking for someone to connect with that I can talk to, flirt a little and feel alive again with.

I miss being seen and heard......not just as a father or a husband, but as a person. I crave a conversation that isn’t about bills, kids, or social obligations…just a normal conversation and an emotional connection (is that too much to ask these days?).

Maybe you are in a similar boat as me, or maybe you’re a shining heroine here to rescue me.

No change in situation for either one of us but let's make best of what we can to feel emotionally and mentally recharged.

Imagine this. You take the chance and say,”fuck it let me say hi” and you shoot me a DM. We get talking, we laugh, we smile, we slowly start to miss each other.

When comfortable we share pictures. You see me, I’m 5’7, hit the gym, tc of myself (trust me I have a whole AM/PM routine), loves to cook and geeks out about films.

We start liking each other and eventually plan to meet.

I book out a nice staycation for us. Maybe by the picasso museum in Antibes. It’s overlooking the sea but I’m admiring the real art work. You.

We walk around old town antibes. We sneak kisses in. When I’m unable to hold it in longer, i pull you into the alleyway to make out with you. The french know a thing or two about kissing.

They smile.

We rush back to our hotel. The one overlooking the french riviera. We’re not looking at the sunset. You’re watching me go down on you, watching me play with you. In between the gasps and moans, you tense up and as euphoria takes over you and you collapse, laughing, you see the sun set. Euphoric.

We walk around, try different food, cuddle by the bed, watch the seagulls fly, people watch, visit museums.

The dream.

XxxxxxxxX

I know what I’m looking for. I want someone mature; who understand discretion and takes care of themselves.

If you’re funny and witty, you get bonus points.

I’m 5’7, attached and I’ve managed to make a name for myself and I’m successful for my age. I work in tech, travel around (5 countries last year alone)

Be my obsession and I’ll be yours.

I’m Indian, married, fit, tech executive, non smoker, high sex drive, naturally dominant, clean and discreet.

Looking for a female (18+) for a kinky FWB. No kink experience is required. Ideally, something long term with connection. Please be drug / disease free and fun. Plus, if you have flexibility to meet weekdays daytime for our shenanigans.

To make the post more descriptive - I love reading, traveling, boxing, economics/finance, space sciences, nature and tennis. I’m kind, assertive and a gentleman. I have lived on both east and west coasts and have traveled extensively internationally for work and leisure.

Great if you are within 30 minutes of San Jose from availability / commute standpoint. DM me with your age and town in Bay Area!

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Married and stuck in monotony. While no marriages are perfect, mine is starting to become a dead bedroom/roommate relationship with an endless loop of chores and duties with no physical connection. In short, a friendly marriage, but a loveless one. I live in Denver, but frequently travel to Bay Area and Seattle for work (5-6 times a year). So open to starting it online and doing in person when the time is right.

Not looking to change my situation or yours, but looking for a constant connection both emotionally and physically. Basically a world where there is a shoulder to lean on, ears to listen to our ramblings and memes and whatnot.

No specific preference to age, but just prefer that you are married since I believe we will have more things in common. I am 32, 5'11, lean muscular, 165lbs and into calisthenics and sports.

Send me a message if you are married and wanna chat and see where this takes us!

I am a married M4F in Chicago seeking respectful, casual, and completely private sexual arrangements. Preference for mutually understood NSA (no strings attached) situations with women who are also balancing a busy life. I am not seeking any long term commitments or consistency, just pure unadulterated sexual encounters to balance the desires and drive of a busy life.