r/CNC__INDIA

I’m a 29-year-old guy who’s been actively dominant for about three and a half years now. I’ve done rope, impact, power exchange, the whole menu… but CNC is the one I keep coming back to like it’s my personal drug of choice. And I figured it was finally time to write out why, because every time someone asks “what’s your biggest kink?” and I say CNC, the follow-up is always “but… why though?”

So here’s the honest, unfiltered version.

It’s not because I secretly want to hurt or force someone in real life. That’s the opposite of what gets me off. What gets me off is the moment when a woman who has negotiated every detail with me, safeworded a thousand times in practice, looks me dead in the eyes and says “please don’t”… and then hands me the power to ignore it anyway.

That split-second of pure, electric trust is insane. She’s choosing to be “helpless” while knowing she’s actually the safest she’ll ever be. And I get to become the version of myself that takes exactly what I want, exactly how I want it, without a single polite check-in mid-scene. No “is this okay?” No pausing to read body language like I’m defusing a bomb. Just raw, primal dominance and her genuine (yet completely consensual) struggle against it.

The psychology of it is wild too. In regular D/s I’m in control, sure. But CNC lets me step into something darker and older; that caveman part of the male brain that evolution never fully civilized. I get to chase, pin, growl, use, and conquer… all while her brain is screaming “this is wrong” and her body is betraying her because she actually wants it more than anything. The contrast between the fantasy of non-consent and the rock-solid reality of consent is what makes it so fucking intense.

I’ve had partners tell me afterward that the headspace they drop into during CNC is deeper than anything else we’ve ever done. And honestly? Same for me on the Dom side. The aftercare that follows a heavy CNC scene is next-level intimate. You just went through something primal together, and now you’re both soft and clingy and stupid in love. It’s like emotional rocket fuel.

So yeah… that’s my “why.”

It’s not about real non-consent. It’s about weaponizing consent to create the most extreme, most honest power exchange possible

hey if u are from delhi and around my age , and interested in exploring kinks as me pls dm

And what does that entail, exactly?

Great question. The answer's 'obedience'.

Now I understand that's a big ask, so rest assured, there's going to be plenty of conversations around how we're going to be structuring it, what our boundaries are, the nitty gritty of it all. Provided that you and I are on the same wavelength, the end result would be a very hot situation where I can order you around as I please, at my convenience, and you will be at my beck and call (and love it the whole time). Lots of sluttiness involved.

Does that mean I'm just going to shout sexual commands at you like a Temu Christian Grey? Eh, not really. I will also spoil you sometimes, hear all about your day, and be there for you in any way I can. It's definitely not a one-sided thing. I am as much yours as you are mine.

In case you're interested, my dms are open.

25M, Hyderabad.

It started quietly.

Not in a club. Not in a message.

But in the way people look — and then look away.

Years ago, I realized something most never understand:

control isn’t taken in a moment… it is built over time.

Since then, I’ve trained, guided, and shaped minds — not just bodies.

I became part of a private circle in Bangalore where dynamics are not played… they are lived.

Today, two submissives carry my structure in their daily lives.

Not because they were forced —

but because they learned what it means to belong under control.

Most people misunderstand this world.

They think it’s about surface-level actions.

It isn’t.

It’s in the pause before a response.

The discipline in silence.

The unspoken understanding of position, presence, and purpose.

I work with intensity — structure, degradation, control, denial, psychological ownership —

but always within clearly defined limits, safety, and awareness.

Because real control doesn’t destroy…

it refines.

Now here’s the part I don’t usually say:

I wasn’t looking.

But something tells me someone reading this

isn’t here by accident.

If you felt that…

don’t ignore it.

Step forward. Or don’t.

Either way —

you’ll remember this.

Mujhe fark ni padta tu kya hai, kali, Moti, Gori, choti, Hindu ya Muslim, mere liye tu bass kuch ched hai, jaha mera garam lund ghus kar bharpur thukai karega, tere jism par chadh kar usse raundega jab tak teri cheekh bahar na aa jaye

Haath pakkadkar, gaala daba kar, teri aakhon mei dekh teri chut ką ek ek inch ką maaza lunga. Lund pathar jaisa hai jo thap thap thap kar teri fuddi, muh, gaand ki bharpur maaze lega.

Tere ahhh, uhhhh aur cheek bass mujhe aur bhi janwaar jaisą bana dengay, teri badan ko chum chum kar, jab tak dono ki şaans na phool jaye tab tak chudai Chalegi

My fantasy is to be forced to things that will break me emotionally, mentally and physically. The thrill of feeling numb as you are scared of everything going around.

So, at the end you have no option but give up.

I am a shy person in real life. Put me through situations where I am scared I might be exposed

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If the following terms are something that resonate with you as a submissive then i am a suitable dom for you.

: Structure, finding comfort in a maze of rules, finding your mind to be calm when it only has to listen to one dominant voice. Honesty and communication, ability to explore darkness by building trust. Ability to explore kinks with an assurance of privacy.

I can provide all of the above.

My kinks vary from taking care of my sub in soft ways to extremes such as cnc and tpe. I dont have a specific age range in mind, my previous subs have been both younger and older than me. What i require though is the willingness to serve and learn.

I wont be asking you to submit everything from the first day. It will be a slow dance of power exchange. I will start off with simple small rules and tasks and work my way into your life. Mental dominance first and physical dominance only comes after that.

I had a great experience with my previous submissives, including my last one which lasted for 2 years. We had to part ways because we were taking different paths in life.

I am also not looking for a long term vanilla relationship. This is strictly kink for me. But that doesnt mean i will not give care or after care. I just want to compartmentalize kink and vanilla life. I am open to both experienced submissives and new ones who are just starting out as i consider myself a teacher , not just a dominant.

About you: the post should resonate with you, I will be very patient and understanding in the beginning and you would have plenty of time to adjust to the dynamic, while i show you the ropes \\\[ pun intended\\\] .

Looking forward to hear from you in my dms. Type an introduction about yourself so that we can start off a conversation with some foundation.

Because you want someone to notice the way you hesitate, correct it, and make you do it again... properly.

I’m a dominant man. Calm, deliberate, and very clear about what I want. I enjoy taking curious or inexperienced submissive women and teaching them... physically and sexually... how to submit with purpose.

If you’re new, nervous, or aching to feel a man take control of your body while you follow instructions, you should keep reading.

I like:

• Telling you when to strip and watching you hesitate before obeying

• Putting you on your knees, spreading you open, correcting you when you move without permission

• Using my hands, mouth, and cock to teach you what “good behavior” feels like

• Holding your chin, making you look up while I decide how you’re used

• Spanking, restraining, edging, and denying until you’re begging clearly and correctly.

• Discipline... verbal, physical, and sexual... when rules are broken

• Rewarding good behavior with attention, touch, and release

You won’t be rushed. You’ll be trained. You’ll be told exactly how to touch yourself, when to stop, and when you’re allowed to come.

I enjoy telling you exactly how to prepare your body for me... even when I’m not in the room. When to shower. How to sit. What to wear. When to touch yourself. When to stop with your hands hovering, aching, waiting for permission.

You’ll learn how to listen, how to wait, how to hold still while you’re being evaluated. You’ll learn how it feels to be aroused and restrained at the same time... body eager, mind quiet.

Expect:

• Clear written rules and expectations

• Daily or session-based protocols (posture, language, response times)

• Edging, denial, and release control

• Discipline for sloppy obedience and rewards for precision

This is consensual power exchange. We talk limits. We establish safe words. You always have agency. You choose to submit... and then you give yourself over fully within agreed boundaries.

You should be:

• 18+

• Curious about submission or hungry to explore it

• Turned on by authority, rules, and discipline

• Willing to communicate clearly and obey intentionally

• Interested in being trained, not rushed

I’m not looking for endless chatting or fantasy collectors. I’m looking for a woman who wants to feel small, controlled, corrected, and taken seriously as a submissive. I’m not looking for people who just want to talk dirty. I want a woman who wants to kneel, be touched deliberately, corrected firmly, and fucked with purpose.

If you’re reading this imagining yourself on your knees, waiting for approval, wondering if you’d be good enough... message me. Tell me what you’re curious about. Tell me what kind of discipline you think you need.

I’ll decide if I want to train you.

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Hello 30m here

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