r/Blackmailers

35 [M4M] When it's really blackmail.

I controlled every aspect of a slave boy's life for five weeks. To this day it's the most helpless and controlled one of my slaves has been.

I met him when he called me a genius over one of my ideas, and within 2 hours I owned him completely. He was very intelligent and imaginative, but also extremely masochistic, which is a dangerous combination in itself. However I think I was just a little smarter and imaginative than he was, as you'll see. 😁

I asked him if he wanted to roleplay blackmail or really be blackmailed. He was emphatic that he wanted it to be real and to have no choice and no way to back out. I said that would involve pushing or breaking his limits, and he said he understood.

So he provided me with his address, and workplace. This was enough to keep him fully controlled, as he lived alone, in a small town with no family or friends, at a job that paid him a very high wage. The job was not high-skill, and one of the managers had it in for him, so it would be very easy for him to be fired, lose his income and not be able to find another job, as he had no real skills. His neighbors were all conservative too and prone to call the police if they see something unusual.

To begin with, I had him lock up his cock. He wouldn't be masturbating or having orgasms. This fact alone caused him to get horny and reveal just how much submissive slave stuff he has. He had done his research, and long story short, he gave me access to his house cameras, the ability to open his garage door, a code-activated padlock, and a number of wearable shock devices.

I didn't hesitate. I informed him that the house cams would be on 24/7. That he would have to be in chastity 24/7. He would not be allowed to wear any clothes at home, except the first square yard inside his front door, which became his dressing and undressing square, that was actually marked on the floor. He was to have his ankles chained together at all times when home, with the key kept just outside the front door. He was to wear 8 shock collars designed for dogs. One on each ankle, each knee, each wrist. And two around the base of his cock and balls, one on the top and one underneath, just next to the cock cage. He was to sleep chained to the bed with a timelock keeping him in place until it was time to get up for work each morning. His alarm was to be me shocking him awake, half an hour before the timelock was due to unlock, so he had to lay there awake in chains every morning.

All of this turned him on, and I received no objection, and he promptly set it all up.

Then came the tasks themselves. I have a philosophy that the only reason that some people have a blackmail fetish, is because unlike non-blackmail domination, you can make them do something they really don't want. There would be no reason for blackmail if I was only going to get him to do things he likes. I therefore gave him tasks I knew he was destined to fail, and therefore begin to inflict some limit-breaking punishments, and the real fun could begin. 😉

When he failed his first task, to find someone to piss on him and film it, I banned him from his own bathroom. He hated this. I made him lock the bathroom door and leave the key at work. At first he saved his shit for work, but eventually he couldn't take it anymore and started shitting in a bucket.

I sometimes gave him fun tasks just to humiliate him, like make him act like a youtuber making "let's watch" videos, but with porn, making them "let's jack off". He was chained to the bed at the time and I shocked him randomly. I even made him do a "let's poop" when he shat in the bucket one time, and give it a rating out of 10.

Most of the time the tasks were a ruse, simply a means of getting him to fail and having an excuse to be cruel. One punishment was being chained to the bed for 24 hours straight with a timelock and no phone or TV, just Alexa in case of emergency. He hated it. Another was to go to work plugged for a week. It was a lovense and I buzzed him randomly throughout the day. He also had a couple of timelock predicaments involving icy hot and/or pepper spray. He cried. Simplest of all was just to make him chain up and shock him excessively. He cried during that too.

His best moment was of his own making, however. He was chained to his bed at 3 in the morning, another 4 hours to go until freedom, but he couldn't sleep. So he goes on grindr and finds someone to come over. He tells them that he's chained to the bed and the back door is unlocked. He arrives hooded, enters through the back door, and finds him naked and chained to the bed, face uncovered. He didn't talk to him, he just got his cock out, jacked off in 2 minutes and blew his load all over his face. Then he left. He never showed his face. I watched on the cameras.

At 3 weeks in he did a naked in public challenge. Under strict instruction, he drove to a semi-isolated park, left his car trunk unlocked, walked 800 yards into the middle of a grassy area with long-ish grass, closed his eyes, spun around, threw the car keys, stopped spinning, and then opened his eyes. He had no idea which direction or how far he had thrown his keys. Then he went back to the car, got completely naked, threw his clothes in the trunk and slammed it shut. He was stuck mashed. He had to go 800 yards back to that approximate location and get on hands and knees and find his car keys. He did the task at midnight as instructed, and he had absolutely no idea where to find the keys. Even with his phone light, he couldn't find them. He grew increasingly panicked and desperate, gave up and curled into a ball, cried, looked for them some more, gave up and cried again. The grass was simply too long and the possible area within with the keys should be was too large. He had to wait for the sun to start rising before there was finally enough light for him to spot them. He walked all the way back to his car, got his clothes out, got dressed, and drove straight home, at which point he texted me, "I hate you."

The funny thing is, at about week 4, he actually fell in love with me. There was something about the fact that I was in complete control and I didn't show mercy, while at the same time he knew that I wouldn't actually harm him, that made him feel secure in a very deep way. He's not the only one that has fallen in love with me this way.

It all ended after five weeks, when that manager who hated him found a reason to fire him anyway. So I lost my leverage. He promptly unlocked his cage and unloaded his 5-week blackmail slavery load. We still chat and I still get him horny, but it isn't the same. But that's the story of my most intensely blackmailed and controlled slave. 🙂

DM me if you want to be him.

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u/Blanckness — 8 hours ago

33 [F4M] #Online Domme looking for a new sub

Blackmail has always turned me on, if you think you can handle being my new toy then message me your asl and kinks. I'm into cum control, chastity, cbt, tpe, humiliation, all things femdom. Always open to exploring so don't be shy. You'll become my personal pornstar, recording yourself doing whatever I say.

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u/missaj1 — 2 hours ago

19[M4F] Im looking for a new sub to take care of

Im looking for a girl that want sto be blackmailed but also be taken care of. Id like to be like your toxic ex im there for you and take care of you but im not afraid to get rough and threaten you if needed, so you go back in your place. Tell me a bit about yourself when you dm me and id prefer if you where around my age.

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u/Different_Clue410 — 1 hour ago

25 [M4A] #Online - Anonymous Dom - looking for my personal toy - read desc

Looking for black(however all guys are welcome) gamers, alternative guys, femboys, FTMs, artsy, musicians, pathetic, nerdy, twink, antisocial, loner, no confidence having losers to be my toy.

Something to finally bring meaning to their useless life. You will be mine to control and own.

I’m not looking to break up marriages or relationships or destroy lives so I won’t expose you, not into that. Exposure is not the point of this post. If you are looking to just be exposed look elsewhere.

Kinks include TPE CNC nipple play ass play cum eating light BDSM feather play blindfolds spanking spitting, being a newer dom I’m more tame than other doms so take that into consideration if you want someone sadistic.

Preferably close to my age but open to all and prefer slim to fit guys. Only online I won’t show myself or send any voice notes, all tasks and requests will be received via chat, consider it part of the package of having a mysterious figure you know nothing about now controlling your life.

If interested, dm with age (must be legal) location, limits, why you want to be chosen and either a pic of yourself, clothed to start, or a description of how you look. Reach out ready to provide material for the blackmail experience. Do not reach out if you know you like to ghost, communicate if this isn’t for you.

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u/Due_Locksmith_996 — 5 hours ago

26 [M4A] Experienced, sadistic, kinky blackmailer looking for his next plaything…

Hello, my name is inari. I’m an experienced, kinky, sadist who’s done consensual blackmail, exposure and many similiar kinks. I pride myself on discretion, safety, consent and privacy.

If you want to see some of my favorite victims, feel free to browse my page 😈

If you’ve read to the end, leave an upvote and begin your message with “I’m here master”.

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u/inariThread — 5 hours ago

25 [M4F] looking for a young woman interested in blackmailing me.

25 [M4F] – I’m looking for a confident, open-minded young woman interested in a consensual blackmail/dominance-style dynamic. Trust, communication, and clearly defined boundaries are essential to me, and everything should stay respectful and safe. I enjoy playful power exchange, teasing control, and building tension over time. Discretion is a must on both sides. If you’re curious, self-assured, and into exploring this kind of dynamic in a thoughtful and exciting way, feel free to message me.

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u/DecisionFabulous2457 — 2 hours ago

24 [F4A] - seeking desperate and eager victims who wanna throw it all just to be of use

Hello there, it's been a while since i did any bloackmail, i'm looking for those who wanna give it all up, let go of their freedom just to be of use.

let go of life and live only to serve, and those who enjoy the fear that Blackmail gives them, living every moment just moment away from exposure, regrating it yes not being able to stop becouse it sends shivers down their spine every time they receive a new order

if this interests you, why not get over here, and introduce yourself too or amma just ignore ya

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u/Miss_Luna_40 — 10 hours ago

19 [M4F] Looking to get blackmailed by a woman

Hello I am looking for a woman to blackmail humiliate and maybe even expose me. I have not that much experience with blackmail but I find it very hot so I wanted to give it another try. My top kinks are humiliation, being degraded tease and denial and cum control, exposure and being put in wedgies. If any of the is sounds interesting leave a comment or dm me and we can talk about limits and things like that.

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u/Crafty_Thought_7394 — 2 hours ago
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26 [M4A] #Lancaster UK - looking to be owned IRL

I'm wanting to be owned, but I want it to be real.

I'm a student at Lancaster UK and I want to be blackmailed and controlled by someone nearby, ideally another student.

I want to meet, you make me do stuff and take pics and then use those to control me. I can be blindfolded so you remain anonymous the whole time and just get to use me without me ever knowing the identity of who I belong to.

I'm open to a lot especially when horny and can discuss limits etc in chat.

please message with asl and if you are a student etc

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u/hornyStudent1999 — 6 hours ago

28 [F4R] mom looking to be blackmailed to be a sneaky slut

I’m a mom of 2 looking to looking to explore stuff that I never got to explore when I was unmarried. The problem is I want to go through with it, hence the blackmail. I want someone to control who I fuck, to try new kinks. To try things I never would with my husband. I love bondage, forced orgasms, nipple play, as well as being bred. I also enjoy the interrogation aspect of getting started. I only play with a safe word and if you read this far tell me what it is

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u/cheatingmom2 — 16 hours ago

27 [MtA] #Spain-I'm searching for someone who wanna feel me the real blackmail, just for fun after I send some nude pics. He have all poner on that pics. Please help me I will send everything u want without limit. Searching professionality, bad dom who throat me like garbage

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u/Pure_Channel1773 — 2 hours ago

31 [M4F] looking for a new blackmailed sub - longterm preferred

I’m an experienced blackmail dom who is looking for a new female sub. You can check out my last success story here: https://www.reddit.com/r/Blackmailers/s/xlmn6G3pwN

I have a lot of kinks including humiliation, tpe, outfit control, orgasm control, degradation and many many more. I like to set daily rules and give tasks as i feel led to. I ultimately want you to feel like you have no choice but to do things i tell you to do without question. Trusting me to keep you safe (and horny) we obviously would discuss limits, your risk tolerance and a safe word before diving in. If you’re interested in becoming my next success story let’s chat!

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u/rowdy-goat — 3 hours ago

40 [M4S] looking for forced feminisation victims

I’m a 40-year-old experienced Master based in the Netherlands. I’ve been doing this for years and I’m very serious about forced feminization.

I’m looking for sissies or men (no age limit) who want to be gradually turned into a proper feminine submissive through blackmail. If you’re serious about this, your life will actually start changing. I’m not here for online roleplay or quick chats – I want real, long-term engagement.

The process is slow and steady, but very real: clothing, shaving, makeup, voice training, posture, and full daily control over how you present yourself.

I will push you. I will inspect your progress with photos and video. I will set rules and tasks that become part of your everyday life. Over time you’ll lose more and more of your old male habits and identity until you’re living as the soft, obedient girl I decide you should be.

This is not fantasy talk. If you submit, expect real changes in your body, your wardrobe, your routines, and your mind. I’m strict, detailed, and patient, but once we start I expect full commitment.

If you’re ready to hand over control and let someone else reshape you into a feminized bitch, send me a message. Put the word strawberry in the message so I know you read this and tell me honestly where you are right now (experience level, limits if any, and what you’re hoping for long-term). Serious inquiries only. Time-wasters will be ignored.

Looking forward to breaking you in properly.

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u/KindlyAppointment205 — 7 hours ago

26 [M4A] - How much are you willing to give up for the thrill?

How much do you think you can give up chasing the thrill? Maybe your entire life but no you wouldn't do that. You aren't dumb enough to send a random stranger your government id on the internet, are you? But you see the other girls/femboys who do it, and you think to yourself "why are they soo happy while I'm unsatisfied?". Well those girls took the plunge and they gave up everything they had they trusted me not to break my end of the deal as long as I got total obedience. Which I got and once you give a sadist everything he's bound to push you and push you beyond any space that you have imagined. Every action will feel invigorating from the minute to the life changing. There will be a thrill in your days like you never have experience before, every notification from me will send a shiver down your spine and make your pussy leak like a faucet. You know the notification is something scary, something the "normal" you would never imagine doing and yet you have no choice. You push yourself, you do things you don't want and slowly you start to change you seem to love things you hated very recently (ask me how many girls were begging to send me money (findom them) where they never would have imagined doing that before ". Blackmail is such a fun kink you will not come out the same you were going in.

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u/armannn_ — 6 hours ago

24 [M4F] You need the adrenaline and I need the control

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Im a strict but fair dom. I love using subs who just can't get enough from normal life.

My kinks: Im really big into humiliation, sometimes I think I like it better than using you, age gap, spankings, anal, slave/owner, toilet (pee and etc) and nasty and blackmail.

About you: of legal age, willing to discuss limits, safe word.

I like women of all shapes and sizes.

I normally treat you like a human being while we chat but when we start our session Im the most ruthless and rough I can be.

Dont message me unless youre serious

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u/Fox_Rivens — 4 hours ago

26 [M4A] Dom looking for a slave

I’m looking for a pathetic slave to own through blackmail. Treat this like a job application and you might get it.

Description:

Your main job will be completing daily and weekly tasks. These will of course be recorded and reviewed. Your body will also be inspected on a regular basis.

The tasks may vary but will include the following: Orgasm control, anal, humiliation, cumplay, ballbusting, worship, bodywriting, public, tpe and many more.

Benefits:

A custom ID card will be created. It’ll include all of the important information about you and kept in safe hands with your master. I will also create a special folder for the "HR department“. Good behavior will be rewarded, while bad behavior will be punished.

Qualifications:

• ⁠Anyone from 18 - 35 can apply

• ⁠Be ready to show face and share info about yourself

Your application via dm must have a proper introduction, including your name, age, gender, location and why I should pick you to be my slave.

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u/BiMaster_13 — 6 hours ago

28 [M4A] - Exploring this Kink and would love to start by owning someone

Hello, I am 28 and have been into hardcore, rough and other stuff for a long time. I have been exploring this blackmailing kink and finding it very hot and interesting. I am looking to own a sub (preferably female but I don't mind males or sissy or Trans). I am still new so learning about this kink, would appreciate if you share your experiences and kinks. I am into domination, blackmail, edging, tasks, clothing control, exhibition, cum control, humiliation, orgasm control, and bondage. No scat, blood, or illegal. We will have a safeword to stop playing and delete anything of yours if you use it. I am a very chill and easy going guy and we will get along so good. Looking forward to owning you

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u/Sea-Palpitation8440 — 4 hours ago

28 [M4S] Sissy Molder

I know who you are. You dress up, put on makeup, watch Hypno, wear plugs and use a chastity cage. You tell yourself it’s just a passing interest. Thats it’s nothing more. You delude yourself into thinking you are still a man. You swear it’s just a phase. Nothing more, right?

Wrong. You love every second of being a sissy. You crave the feeling. In fact, you can’t get off without it. The feeling of that silky top against your skin. The feeling of fishnets against your legs. The constricting tightness of a cage around your clitty. The feeling of being filled by a plug or big cock. You love being given orders. You enjoy following them. Maybe you love posting online. Or maybe it just turns you on. Knowing others get to see you for who you truly are. And you absolutely adore the idea of blackmail. Don’t you?

But there is something missing for you. You purge every once and awhile. You regret it for maybe a day, a month, or even a year. But you always come back. ALWAYS. Cages, plugs, clothes and toys are an inevitability for you. You just have trouble committing. I’ll take the choice away from you sissy. I keep you honest, obedient, feminine and submissive. I’ll make all your darkest desires and deepest fantasies come true, and more. All this and more is only a few clicks away.

Don’t bother to message me if you are not comfortable with; -Exchanging personally identifiable blackmail information - sharing your face -Engaging in a robust blackmail training dynamic

I am flexible, respectful, demanding and sincere. Please don’t waste my time. Message me with the word “sissy” if you have read this far. In your message, tell me about your experience, toys, outfits, and for fun why don’t you tell me about the first time you dressed up. I look forward to your response.

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u/Patient_Stock9163 — 7 hours ago

25 [M4F] - looking for a fully obedient slave

25M4F looking for a fully obedient slave

(Read full description)

I’m firstly going to say I’m looking for someone that knows what there getting into and knows the consequences

I will ask for you social logins, full nude photos, some family members phone numbers and emails, and I will have you do tasks all for blackmail purposes

I will give you a choice to leave this blackmail every month so if it gets to intense you can back out and I will delete everything I have of you

Please don’t message me if your looking for role play

Now dm me if your interested and introduce yourself

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u/Manager_Financial — 7 hours ago

26[M4MtF, f] forcing you to do public dares

Do you always enjoy seeing other trans and girls just gooning in public? you probably wanted to do it too but keeps backing off due to the risk of being caught. Let's make you go through with it this time. let's start with some easy dares and work it up as we go. let's blackmail you into doing the public cumshot you've always wanted.

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u/Actual_Second_5049 — 10 hours ago
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