u/wishuvalentine

High-achieving age-gap couple (M50/F38) in Amsterdam May 5–11

We are a fit, professional M/F couple visiting from a progressive state in the US, looking to celebrate a milestone birthday with some like-minded company in Amsterdam.

Professionally, we both navigate high-stakes legal careers, so we value sharp wit and deep conversation. Physically, we stay very active, e.g., heavy lifting, high-mileage running, bouldering, and yoga.

• Him (50) 178/72.5 athletic build, straight, and enjoys friendly banter, wit and exercise;

• Her (38): 168/54 and very bi, with lots of ink, intellectual with a refined aesthetic and a playful, open-minded spirit who loves explict books with sapphic themes and trashy reality tv.

We aren't exactly "new," but we are selective. We’ve explored poly and mff threesomes together. She is particularly experienced, having navigated group play and various lifestyle settings with confidence. We’ve learned that the best experiences come from clear communication and genuine chemistry rather than just rushing into the physical.

We are seeking a sophisticated, fit M/F couple, or single F or M, who values hygiene, respect, and a "no-pressure" start. We love an intellectual connection first—give us a couple who can talk shop or travel over a drink before things heat up. We also test and expect the same.

We are primarily interested in same room full swap. She is bi and loves connecting with women, but is selective and intentional when it comes to adding men to the mix.

We will be in Amsterdam from May 5-11, staying at a high-end hotel in the city center. We’re open to hosting there if the chemistry is right, but we’re also happy to meet at a neutral cocktail bar first or visit you if you’re local.

Ultimately looking for spontaneous but respectful. We’re here for a good time, a lot of laughs, and a memorable birthday celebration.

If this matches your energy, send us a message with a bit about yourselves! 🥂

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u/wishuvalentine — 6 days ago