u/farmboy044

Image 1 — M4FM | Lancaster / Philly | Suit On, Standards Higher 🤣
Image 2 — M4FM | Lancaster / Philly | Suit On, Standards Higher 🤣
Image 3 — M4FM | Lancaster / Philly | Suit On, Standards Higher 🤣
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M4FM | Lancaster / Philly | Suit On, Standards Higher 🤣

Yeah, I’m in a suit. Not for show, because that’s my life.

I’ve been in the lifestyle before with my wife, so I’m not here guessing or playing games. I know what works, and more importantly, what doesn’t. If your idea is some random guy showing up with a huge cock, zero convo before and just coming to plow your wife, keep scrolling—that’s not my lane.

I’m looking for couples, or wives looking solo, especially newer or still figuring things out, who actually want to build something first. Chemistry, tension, anticipation, that’s where the real fun starts. Not rushed, not forced.

My vibe:

Not the “perfect Instagram gym couple.”

More like the confident, suburban, girl-next-door type who has that quiet energy… until she doesn’t. The kind that knows exactly what she’s holding back or the husband who is wanting help to get his wife to open up to the idea of it.

About me:

-Executive-level professional based out of Lancaster

-In Philly regularly

-Tall, solid build, slight dad bod—real, not filtered

-Confident, direct, and know how to lead a conversation

-Discreet, selective, and not here for nonsense

-solid 7.5”-8” (depending on woman) 🤣

I don’t chase. And I don’t waste time on situations that don’t match energy or intelligence. If we talk, it’s because there’s potential. If we move forward, it’s because it feels right on both sides.

And yeah—if nothing else, I’m good for conversation, business insight, tax questions, local & state laws, hit me up & try me, I love to talking adulting things.

If you get it, you’ll reach out.

If not, no hard feelings.

u/farmboy044 — 21 hours ago