u/UnitOk3511

We live in Manhattan and want to meet someone local or willing to come to us. This is strictly an in person thing, not looking for online anything.

I'm 28, she's 25, together 3 years. I'm 6'2 and athletic, she's a blonde Russian girl. We're both fit and we're looking for a bicurious guy between 18 and 28 who is too. Toned body, takes care of himself.

First step is always drinks at a bar in the city. We want to meet face to face and see if there's chemistry before anything else. If things click we host in Manhattan and we'd want to keep it going with the right person.

Send a shirtless pic with your message so we know the physical side lines up. We send ours back. No games, no endless texting, we're trying to actually meet.

Posting from our couch right now. She's on her phone next to me pretending she's not reading over my shoulder but she definitely is. We're a couple in Manhattan. I'm 28, she's 25. Together 3 years. I own a tech company, she's a Russian blonde who I somehow convinced to date me. We're both in shape and we both want to find a third.

Here's what matters to us: you're between 18 and 28, you're bicurious, and you're actually fit. Not "I used to play sports" fit, actually toned with definition. We hit the gym constantly and want someone who does too. Shirtless pic with your first message or we're not going to respond. We send ours back right away.

We don't do same day meets. We grab a drink somewhere first, talk, see if the three of us have any chemistry as people before we talk about anything else. We've learned that the connection part matters more than anything and when that's right everything else is easy.

We host in Manhattan. Send us for photo.

Real couple here. I'm 28 and she's 25, we live downtown. Not posting from a throwaway because we don't care, our profile backs us up. I run a tech company, 6'2, work out daily. She's Russian, blonde, 25, and the reason we're getting any responses at all. We've been talking about finding a third for a long time and decided to stop talking and start looking.

We're after a specific type. Bicurious, 18 to 28, actually in shape with a toned body. If you tell us you go to the gym we're going to ask for a shirtless pic to back that up. We take ours seriously and expect you to as well.

Not a hookup. We want someone we'd actually want to get a drink with first. If the three of us are laughing and vibing at a bar in the village then we know it's the right fit. If it works we keep seeing you. That's the whole idea.

Can host. Travel not an issue. DM us.

My boyfriend brought this up first which surprised me. I'd been thinking about it for a while but never said anything. Now we're both on the same page and actually looking.

I'm 25, Russian, blonde, and I've never been with a black guy before. He's 28, 6'2, athletic, runs his own company. We're a real couple, been together 3 years. This isn't some fantasy post, we want to actually make this happen.

He wants to watch and be involved. This is a couple thing for us not a solo mission. We're looking for a guy who's hung, fit, and between 18 and 28. Someone confident who knows what he's doing or at least isn't shy about it.

We want to meet for a drink first and see if the vibe is there. Not trying to jump into something with a stranger off the internet with zero conversation first. If it goes well we'd want to do it again, not a one and done.

We're in Manhattan. Can host. If you're not local we can work it out. DM us a pic and tell us about yourself. We verify and share back

My girl and I have had this conversation probably fifty times at this point. We keep coming back to it. She finally told me to stop overthinking and just post so here we are.

I'm 28, she's 25, we live in Manhattan. Been together 3 years, solid relationship, this is something we both want. I own a tech company, she's a model from Russia. We're doing well, we look good, and we're not desperate, just interested in finding the right person to add to what we already have.

We want a guy our age or younger, 18 to 28, who's bicurious. Meaning you're not fully straight and you're not fully gay but somewhere in between and still exploring what that means. That's the specific thing that we're both attracted to. If you've been doing this for years and it's old hat for you then we're probably not the right fit.

You need to be in good shape. We're not being difficult about it, we both work out regularly and want someone who does too. Send a shirtless pic when you message us so we're not going back and forth about it. We'll send ours.

This isn't about one night. We want to actually like the person we're doing this with. Meet for drinks somewhere in the city, talk for a while, see if the three of us get along before anything happens. If it works we want to keep seeing you. Something ongoing that builds over time.

We can host. If you're not in the city we can work something out, we travel enough that distance is a minor detail.

DM us with some info about yourself, where you're at, a picture and what you're looking for.

My girlfriend brought this up like a year ago and at first I kind of brushed it off. Not because I wasn't into it but because I didn't think we'd actually find the right person. She's been way more open about it than me and honestly she's the reason I'm writing this right now.

We live in Manhattan, been together about 3 years. I'm 28, she's 25. I own a tech company so between work and life things move fast, but we make time for what matters. She's from Russia, natural blonde, and I'm still not sure how I ended up with her. I'm 6'2 and stay in good shape, gym is a big part of my routine.

What we're looking for is a bicurious guy, 18 to 28. That part is important to us. We don't want someone who's been doing this forever and is just going through the motions. We want someone who's still feeling things out because there's something about that energy that makes the whole dynamic work. You also need to be in shape, toned, takes care of your body. We both prioritize that and want someone on the same page. Send a shirtless pic when you reach out so we can see you're about it.

I think what separates us from most of the posts on here is that we're not trying to have some random encounter and never talk again. We genuinely want to meet someone we like spending time with. Hang out, get food, see if the three of us actually enjoy each other's company. And if we do then we keep it going. That matters more to us than anything physical.

We can host in Manhattan. If you're not local we'll make it work, distance hasn't stopped us before with anything else in life so it won't here either. Shoot us a message telling us about yourself and why this caught your eye.

My girlfriend brought this up like a year ago and at first I kind of brushed it off. Not because I wasn't into it but because I didn't think we'd actually find the right person. She's been way more open about it than me and honestly she's the reason I'm writing this right now.

We live in Manhattan, been together about 3 years. I'm 28, she's 25. I own a tech company so between work and life things move fast, but we make time for what matters. She's from Russia, natural blonde, and I'm still not sure how I ended up with her. I'm 6'2 and stay in good shape, gym is a big part of my routine.

What we're looking for is a bicurious guy, 18 to 28. That part is important to us. We don't want someone who's been doing this forever and is just going through the motions. We want someone who's still feeling things out because there's something about that energy that makes the whole dynamic work. You also need to be in shape, toned, takes care of your body. We both prioritize that and want someone on the same page. Send a shirtless pic when you reach out so we can see you're about it.

I think what separates us from most of the posts on here is that we're not trying to have some random encounter and never talk again. We genuinely want to meet someone we like spending time with. Hang out, get food, see if the three of us actually enjoy each other's company. And if we do then we keep it going. That matters more to us than anything physical.

We can host in Manhattan. If you're not local we'll make it work, distance hasn't stopped us before with anything else in life so it won't here either. Shoot us a message telling us about yourself and why this caught your eye.

First time posting something like this so bear with me. My girlfriend and I have been going back and forth on this for months and she finally convinced me to just write something up.

Little background on us. I'm 28, 6'2, pretty built. I own a tech startup so my schedule is flexible which helps with this kind of thing. My girl is 25, she's from Russia, blonde, and yeah she's hot. We live in Manhattan and honestly our life is pretty great, this is just something we both want to explore together.

So here's the thing. We specifically want a guy who would describe himself as bicurious. Somewhere between 18 and 28. Someone who's maybe thought about this stuff or experimented a little but hasn't gone all in. That's the sweet spot for us. Also you gotta be in shape. We both work out regularly and physical attraction matters so if the gym isn't part of your routine this probably isn't gonna work.

The other thing I want to be upfront about is that we're not doing this to check a box. We actually want to find someone we can keep seeing. Build trust, get to know each other as people first, and let things develop naturally over time. If we meet up and it's awkward that's fine, no hard feelings, but the goal is finding someone who sticks around.

We don't care if you're in another city or even another state. We travel a lot anyway so making it work logistically is the easy part. Just drop us a DM with a little about you and what made you respond to this. Pictures go both ways, we'll share ours too.