u/ThrowRA_Fondant5474

There is this local custom which is nothing but a bridal shower. The catch is that there is an actual shower of the bride and the bridesmaid. Both of them will be fully clothed of course(extra care at times to not reveal much) and family and relatives will provide their blessing by pouring water on them. One of my cousin is getting married and my mom forced me to her bridesmaid. Me and that cousin have some old issues between us and I didn't wanted to be there. I figured that if I can't escape I should use it to my advantage. I choose a dress which is white and very thin. I wore absolutely nothing inside. Yup, I gone commando. One the shower got started and few people pour water on us my dress started fading and my body started showing. By the time half of the people are done, I was pretty much naked there. I can see the amusement in their eyes. Of course, My cousin and mom's were filled with horror. My mom tried to stop and pull me aside but few of the relatives suggested that it was considered as bad luck. So, I was pretty much naked for few hours in front of everyone and almost all of them took special interest to meet me up close. So even tried to caress as well and Of course I was extremely wet and throbbing. This will one of the top ten adventures I ever did and something to look back.

So, When I joined in a local college near our village my mom pushed me out of the house saying that I need to learn standing on my feet. She said that it's for my own good and the truth is that she's not happy with my college choice. It took me some time to find a good job that pays for the place I live. Fortunately, I got a good job and a promotion in an year. After that I was burdened with a lot of responsibilities from work and it effected my grades in college. I finally took the decision to drop off and concentrate on my work. This is when our relationship took a major hit. It took us almost an year or two to get back on good terms.

Recently, My work friend who also happens to be my best friend wrote an artistic film which happens to include nudity and other stuff. I honestly liked the script, it's about the struggles of a sex worker and I wanted to give it a try. She promised that she'll show it authentically. We shot almost thirty percentage of the film. This is when we started shooting the nude scenes and one such scene was set up in a secluded area. The first day of shooting went fine but apparently someone that know me saw us and informed my mom. On the next day of shot was a bit intense and we had a few intruders as well. But around afternoon my mom showed up and saw me in an compromising position while we were shooting the scene with few guys.

She invited me to dinner and once I got there she started crying saying that she was really hurt about what she say. Apparently, the ramblings from the intruders did a number on her. I told that it's just the part of filming and there are certain things that we need to do as we have a much smaller production and can't afford prosthetics. Then she lashed out on my best friend saying that she's using me to fulfill her fantasies and trying to turn me into a w*ore. This is when my patience got exhausted and I told her to stop. I said that I'm an adult and she need to respect my decisions and I left right away. Later she called around 20 times and ignored. This morning she messaged me saying that she's disappointed with my behavior and that I need to start seeing the truth instead of being dumb all the time. I ignored her message as well. So, AITAH for standing up for my self?