u/Specific_Volume_1546

Okay, this may be confusing, but I've had 2 long-term girlfriends, and I've approached the topic of piss play to each one. With the first one It was a yes that changed once she tried it. The other was fine with it, but I definitely didn't enjoy it like I did. But now im single again, and I only want serious relationships, but this kink has become a deal breaker for me bc of how much I like it. So, how can I approach the topic early on in a relationship or talking stage?