u/Scottyram26

Okay well not think ….. I did . For context my homie and this girl were together for 6 or 7 years . They were the definition of HS sweethearts. Everyone and I mean everyone thought they were going to get married . They moved away to a different country for a few years and kinda got silent on IG or social media per says and I guess inevitably broke up pretty quietly after a total of almost 9 years together . Now this is my best friend , type of friend where we could not talk for a year and catch up like we were just talking last week . Of course over the years with just growing older and not living in the same city we have become a little more distant but nonetheless , that’s my boy.

Flash forward to last week and I’m at a party in the same city where my friend and I grew up and I see a girl that I thought was just drop dead gorgeous . She made eyes with me and I made eyes with her and yea long story short I woke up at 4 am to a very messy bun hair-do in my face . Now mind you we didn’t do a whole lot of talking before our tongues were down each others throats but I was sure I’ve never seen this girl before .

Well yea it was her . Completely different hair style , Color , she lost damn near 20 pounds she looked like a completely different person. Even the energy that I knew her to have was completely different than the person I hooked up with that night before . She laughs it off and gets dressed and tells me to call her, meanwhile I’m heartbroken over what I’ve done to my best friend . I know they’re not together anymore and it’s just life that happened , but should I tell him? I consider him my best friend and wouldn’t want to hurt him because I know how much he loved her but I also feel like it’s worst if I don’t tell him . What betrayal is worse??