Monogamy – just a word we like to use?
Honest question. We say we believe in monogamy. One man. One woman. One covenant. That’s the ideal, right? But then you scroll through “Christian” spaces… and it doesn’t exactly look like that. People sharing their spouse with others. Posting explicit content. Inviting attention outside the relationship.
And somehow… we still call it “Christian”. Let’s not pretend this is just about “struggling with temptation”. At some point, it becomes a lifestyle. And here’s the uncomfortable part: We want the freedom of the world… but still carry the label of faith.
This is not about pointing fingers. None of us are perfect. We all deal with desire, curiosity, sexuality. That’s human. But faith isn’t just what we feel. It’s what we choose to live by. So maybe the real question isn’t: “Is this wrong or right?” Maybe it’s this: Are we being honest about what we’re actually living… or just calling it something it’s not?