u/No_Driver_1327

Looking at getting one of these to play with my wife. She's not really a toy user, and one of her main turn-offs is that they feel too 'artificial'. Would ease her mind a lot if it was difficult to tell it was a toy.

For the women who have used these, I'm wondering how much of a difference is there vs. the real thing? (obvious size difference not withstanding). Assuming he warms it up first, can you instantly tell it's a fake penis, or can you convince yourself it's the real deal?

I've been straight my whole life, have a great 20 year marriage to my wife, excellent sex life. Lately I've been thinking a lot about giving and receiving oral with a male (general, not anyone specific). The thoughts are highly arousing for me. I'm only interested in the act itself. I have zero attraction to men, zero interest in anything else, (emotional relations, kissing, anal, etc). I have done some practice on a dildo in the past and enjoyed it. I feel like I would be really good at it since I know everything that feels great to a man. These thoughts and feelings are very private, my wife would NOT be okay with me expressing them to her. She's had ex boyfriends in the past that have admitted the same, and she thinks they're disgusting now. She also does not like giving head, so maybe that's part of it for me?

Anyway, I am NOT here looking for a hookup. Just somewhere I can discuss and work through the feelings.

EDIT: Clarified that the people my wife found 'disgusting' were ex boyfriends, not just any person she knew. Previously it just said 'friends' instead of 'ex-boyfriends' so it made it sound like that applied to everyone. Very poor choice of words on my part.