Potential cake?
Hello everyone,
I’ve been a reader on and off in this group for a bit… wondering if I fit the cake description or maybe I am getting it confused with something else.
A little about me: I’m 40F and married. Over the last couple of years we have been experimenting with ENM with me virtually making connections with other men - sexting, sharing some photos, audio, video etc over time - after trust and communication has been built. A mix of play D/s dynamics - learning new things about ourselves etc it’s been lots of fun and eye opening.
During one of those times, one of my partners mentioned he mentioned me to his other female partner… that excited me. We have played around with me doming him while she was next to him, telling her to do something to him for me… etc etc
He has come back and mentioned they talk about me during sex, pretend I’m there performing acts… again… this turns me on a lot.
I like the idea that I’m in their heads and getting them both off with or without me actively engaging.
Does this make me fall under the cake category at all?
In these scenarios I can see myself doing the following:
* Dominating both the male and female
* Having the male dominate me and I dominate the other female partner.
Thank you for taking the time to read this and any comments or advice is appreciated. 😊