u/JadeHeHer

44 male

Getting to know myself better, emotion, vulnerability.

Are you maybe the person I need.

I have a feminine energy that shows up in me—whether it’s the desire to feel sexy in lingerie or this deep ache for total, childlike vulnerability—feels like it’s trying to fill a real need for safety, softness, and unconditional holding. I’m wanting both the “sexy” version of myself and the “little girl held by her mother” version at different times.

The breastfeeding and total surrender part is especially raw for me. I believe a lot of mothers (and people who have mothered) understand that bone-deep pull to create a space where someone feels small, safe, and utterly cared for—where the body and emotions can drop every single defense. Sometimes I need to feel desired and beautiful, and sometimes I need to regress into pure innocence and be mothered back to wholeness.

The hardest part for me is finding the right person to hold that space with. This level of vulnerability requires iron-clad trust, clear consent, and someone who won’t shame the “little” version of me when she shows up in Barbie panties or asks to be rocked and fed.

Perhaps together we can explore this “feminine side + emotional vulnerability” without judgment, whoever might be interested must be able to hold the little-girl energy and nurture her.

“Sometimes I need to let my feminine, vulnerable side come out completely. That can look like wearing soft, little-girl things and wanting to be held, soothed, maybe even nursed in a nurturing way. It’s not fake role-play for me—it’s me feeling safe enough to drop every shield.

44 male

Getting to know myself better, emotion, vulnerability.

Are you maybe the person I need.

I have a feminine energy that shows up in me—whether it’s the desire to feel sexy in lingerie or this deep ache for total, childlike vulnerability—feels like it’s trying to fill a real need for safety, softness, and unconditional holding. I’m wanting both the “sexy” version of myself and the “little girl held by her mother” version at different times.

The breastfeeding and total surrender part is especially raw for me. I believe a lot of mothers (and people who have mothered) understand that bone-deep pull to create a space where someone feels small, safe, and utterly cared for—where the body and emotions can drop every single defense. Sometimes I need to feel desired and beautiful, and sometimes I need to regress into pure innocence and be mothered back to wholeness.

The hardest part for me is finding the right person to hold that space with. This level of vulnerability requires iron-clad trust, clear consent, and someone who won’t shame the “little” version of me when she shows up in Barbie panties or asks to be rocked and fed.

Perhaps together we can explore this “feminine side + emotional vulnerability” without judgment, whoever might be interested must be able to hold the little-girl energy and nurture her.

“Sometimes I need to let my feminine, vulnerable side come out completely. That can look like wearing soft, little-girl things and wanting to be held, soothed, maybe even nursed in a nurturing way. It’s not fake role-play for me—it’s me feeling safe enough to drop every shield.