u/Falconbear36

So quick backstory, my SO (34F) smoked when we met but when I told her I am highly allergic to it, she quit. She started up a second time and it almost ended us, but I compromised and she took up vaping, which doesn't bother me. Well, she took it up a third time. I've compromised with a lot of things in this relationship and I feel I am just not respected anymore. So when she gets home from her families visit, I am taking away her debit card (its all my money), cancelling our vacation and telling her I will not be going with her to visit her family anymore (they're all heavy smokers and she uses them as an excuse now to do it). I am kind of just...done. If it wasn't for my kid, I am sure I would have bailed but keeping it together for him. AIO to taking all that away because she crossed the one line I had again?